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The Very Raunchy History Of Sex In The Middle Ages

Katherine Harvey’s illuminating novel The Fires of Lust: Sex in the Middle Ages offers a peek into the sexual beliefs and bedrooms of ordinary medieval men and women living in western Europe. Erections were believed to be the result of a “windy spirit,” meaning those suffering with impotence were advised to eat foods which caused wind and bloating like chickpeas. Too much sex was said to be very dangerous because it could cause the body to dry out, leading to hair loss, heart and lung problems, and kidney failure.  

German Dominican friar Albertus Magnus recounted the story of one unfortunate monk who died because he lusted over a woman so much his “brain had shrunk to the size of a pomegranate, and his eyes had been destroyed.” Medieval doctors believed, however, that there was a connection between sexual pleasure and reproduction: it was thought that both men and women had to have an orgasm simultaneously for conception to occur. With this in mind, foreplay was encouraged by medieval doctors—with some even suggesting men apply chewed peppers to his penis to cause his wife “incredible delectation.”

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Check out more about the history of sex in the middle ages: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10268783/The-raunchy-history-sex-Middle-Ages-revealed-new-book.html

People With Anxiety And Depression More Likely To Use ‘Sextech,’ Study Finds

People struggling with their mental health are more likely to explore digital sexual technologies, a study finds. Kinsey Institute experts say sextech helps these individuals find temporary relief. Examples of sextech include erotic webcam sites, virtual reality porn, or even just the capacity to share sexually explicit images or videos.

“It’s likely that many users in these spaces do have social support and adequate social networks, but they’re turning to online sexual technologies for a unique boost to their psychological mindset,” researchers say. “As the global need for innovative mental health resources and interventions increases, emerging sexual technologies may provide relief for people with mental health struggles.” The authors point out that sextech is not used by lonely people who can’t find sex in face-to-face relationships, but instead as an “important pathway for mental health intervention.”

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Check out more about how sextech helps people with anxiety and depression: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-10235101/Mental-health-People-anxiety-depression-likely-use-sextech-study-finds.html

A Common Mistake Men Make In Bed

A sexpert who shares sexy pics and advice with her 4.5 million Instagram followers says she knows exactly what you can do to guarantee your partner has a good time, every single time. She says that the one mistake men make is believing that “sex just happens, like roll over, take it, and done.” “It’s about conversation, connection, making time for each other, listening, laughing, and being sexy with each other,” she explains.

She advises men to “make her desires your priority,” in other words “You need to be vigilant of her, take care of her, watch out for her and be solicitous of her needs.” She advises couples to make time for intimacy, flattery, experimentation with sex toys and foreplay. “Most importantly it’s about being healthy, happy and serving each other’s interests as well as your own,” she says.

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Check out more about a common mistake men make in bed: https://nypost.com/2021/11/12/a-common-mistake-men-always-make-in-bed-plus-tips-to-guarantee-orgasm/

How To Not Catch Feelings For A One Night Stand

Sometimes the joys of casual sex can be outweighed by pesky “feelings.” Thankfully, a psychotherapist says these hookups can be easy ways to satisfy carnal desires with no strings attached. During sex, the body releases oxytocin, commonly called the “love hormone,” so it’s natural to feel a deep connection during and after the act, even if it only happens once, explained a Sydney-based psychotherapist.

She explained that when people catch serious feelings for a casual hookup, they may be ignoring the reality of the situation, perhaps to get more out of it: “It’s possible that that person is not responding to what’s available at this moment, and trying to fulfill deeper needs…” She added that people who find themselves with feelings for a one night stand should take time to gauge the gravity of those feelings, and reflect to see if the feelings align with what they really want. People who found themselves getting emotional would do well to acknowledge those feelings honestly, allow them to exist, then let them go: “We can catch feelings, but we don’t actually have to hold onto them. It’s possible to let them come, stay for a while, and pass.”

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Check out more about how not to catch feelings for a one night stand: https://www.vice.com/en/article/wxd835/how-to-sex-one-night-stand-hookup-emotions

Size Matters According To Gen Z And Millennials

Millennials and members of Generation Z are hung up on penis size, a new survey has found. A medical website quizzed 1,003 American adults of all ages about their penis preferences, and discovered younger respondents are more likely to say size matters in the bedroom. While 61% of Baby Boomers and 60% of Gen X’ers believed penis size was crucial to sexual pleasure, the numbers were noticeably higher among those in their 20s and 30s.

Almost three-quarters (74%) of Millennials said size is important between the sheets, while the number increased to a whopping 85% among members of Gen Z. Researchers believe porn is to blame for younger generations’ penis-prejudices: almost one in five straight men surveyed said porn was the biggest reason for body insecurity during sexual interactions. 41% of men and women believed a penis between 6 and 8 inches is best, while 31% said a smaller–sized dick—between 4 and 6 inches—was optimal.

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Check out more about Millennials and Gen Z getting hung up on dick size: https://nypost.com/2021/11/19/gen-z-millennials-hung-up-on-penis-size-during-sex-study/

‘Aftercare’ Helps Kinksters ‘Come Down’ After BDSM Sex

In the world of BDSM, aftercare is a post-play ritual in which partners exchange physical or emotional comfort following an intense sexual experience. Aftercare might involve cuddling, talking, or tending to any minor injuries sustained during the BDSM “scene.” This kind of nurturing helps both partners gently come down from the “high” of the BDSM scene, and avoid the low emotional state known as “drop” in kink circles.

“BDSM play is inherently risky, whether physically or emotionally,” a sex educator explains. “It involves a higher level of vulnerability and trust than normal sex.” This is why “Taking care of someone after this is an act of protection and care,” they explain. Aftercare is a way to help kinksters “ease back into normal consciousness.”

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Check out more about how aftercare helps kinksters after BDSM: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/aftercare-bdsm-vanilla-sex_l_61958a0de4b0ae9a429b1eba

The Most Underrated Sex Positions, According To Porn Stars

Porn stars have some advice for those looking to spice up their sex lives: try underrated sex positions. According to more than a dozen adult performers, some sex positions are simply overhyped—like reverse cowgirl—considering their limited potential for pleasure and high level of effort. As one porn star explains, “We do more acrobatic positions in scenes because they look wild on camera. And we don’t do a lot of things like missionary because they look boring.”

They claim that underrated sex positions—missionary and spooning—are actually really great, since they offer intimacy, deeper penetration, and better clitoral stimulation. “If you want to get good at sex, treat it like a science, not a primal instinct. Angle, depth, and speed are your units of measure. You can make adjustments to all of these factors with every position you try when you’re experimenting with them,” one porn star says. They say to experiment with what feels good, and to “Try not to judge yourself if things go wrong. It’s completely normal, and OK, to laugh during sex—to make fun of ourselves when we try new things and it doesn’t totally work.”

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Check out more about underrated sex positions, according to porn stars: https://mashable.com/article/sex-positions

Couples Are Erecting Xmas Trees In The Bedroom To Perk Up Their Sex Lives

Frisky couples are finding multiple purposes for their Xmas trees this year. In a recent survey conducted by a gardening company, one in six customers put trees in their bedroom to get them in the mood. Experts say the sight of its green prickles and smell of pine is the ultimate turn-on.

One female customer said, “My boyfriend was dead against a tree in the bedroom but I said we could stay in bed all day on Christmas and that won him over.” The gardening company’s director explained: “It connects us with nature and reminds us of our earliest ancestors who slept and made love in the outdoors.” As a male respondent said, “This is my favorite—as they say happy wife, happy life.”

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Check out more about horny couples putting Xmas trees in the bedroom: https://nypost.com/2021/12/06/couples-are-erecting-christmas-trees-in-the-bedroom-to-perk-up-their-love-lives/

Deal On Morning After Pill Ignites Campaign To Make It More Affordable

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A Black Friday deal has sparked outrage over the exorbitant price of emergency contraception. On Black Friday, UK pharmacy chain Boots slashed the price of emergency contraception, giving it a 50 percent discount. The deal, which was brought to people’s attention by a tweet, has since prompted the launch of a campaign to make the morning after pill more affordable and accessible. 

Campaigners are urging Boots to do the right thing and permanently reduce the price of the morning after pill to £8—Boots are charging between £15.99 and £56.50. Journalist Rose Stokes—who tweeted about the Black Friday deal and who’s running the campaign—said that Boots have not responded to the calls to make emergency contraception more accessible “suggesting they are continuing to prioritise profit over the needs of people who might really need this critical medication.” Stokes says, “For too long women and people with wombs have had to pay a sexist surcharge on basic healthcare items, Boots has an opportunity to lead the way on correcting this. I hope they take it.”

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Check out more about a campaign aimed at reducing the high cost of emergency contraception: https://mashable.com/article/black-friday-morning-after-pill-campaign

Self-Professed ‘Home Wrecker’ Teaches You How To Spot A Cheater

A self-professed “home-wrecker,” who loves being a mistress to married men, shared her top tips on how to spot a cheater this holiday season. Research suggests that cheating is set to spike during the December season—especially at drunken office parties. The woman, who shares racy snaps with her 83,000 Instagram followers, considers herself an expert in the art of extramarital affairs.

“No one ever wants to think their boyfriend or husband is cheating on them but there can be lots of subtle signs you would never normally notice,” she said. Red flags to watch out for include a change in a partner’s demeanor, styling, and personal hygiene—like if they start acting unusually nice, dressing better and “slapping on the aftershave and suddenly shaving his balls and crotch.” “Another thing to check is if they clear their browsing history after using a laptop, tablet or phone,” she added. “What are they looking at that they don’t want you to see?”

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Check out more about how to spot a cheater: https://nypost.com/2021/11/24/self-confessed-home-wrecker-teaches-you-how-to-spot-a-cheater/