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Dr. Ruth Says 90-Year-Olds Should Still Have Sex

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Renowned sex therapist, 93-year-old Dr. Ruth Westheimer, has advice for her peers: keeping having sex. But there’s a caveat—the sex has to be good. She says, “If they have a good partner, they should have sex. If you don’t have a partner, they should satisfy themselves. Period. There is no age limit.”

Dr. Ruth went into sex therapy many decades ago to help “strengthen family life.” She said growing up as a Jewish person, “sex was never a sin, but an obligation—for a husband to satisfy his wife—period.  I realized I did not know enough and I just wanted people to know about contraception and STDs.” Speaking of her own “good” marriage, she said her husband was very supportive of her career: “He went with me to NBC every Sunday night for 10 years when I did my ‘Sexually Speaking’ program,” she said.

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Check out more about Dr. Ruth telling 90-year-olds to keep having sex: https://nypost.com/2021/06/05/dr-ruth-yes-90-year-olds-should-still-have-sex/

The Top Masturbation Question People Had During The Pandemic

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During the lonely months of the pandemic, people had one thing on their minds: masturbation. In particular, people Googled one main question. It seems between March 2020 and May 2021 people around the world were Googling to find out if masturbation had any impact on their immune systems.

The top masturbation-related query on Google since March 2020 (both in the U.S. and worldwide) was “masturbation affect immunity.” One doctor attempted to answer the burning question: “You can’t say, ‘Oh my gosh, masturbation every day will prevent COVID.’ That’s definitely not going to happen,” she explained. “But you can say ‘It’s certainly not going to create harm.'” While masturbation might not make you immune to COVID-19, the doctor noted that masturbating and having orgasms provide a slew of other mental and physical benefits for both men and women.

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Check out more about the top masturbation question people had during the pandemic: https://mashable.com/article/does-masturbation-boost-immunity-coronavirus/

How To Have Safe Shower Sex

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Shower sex can be very hot—just as long as you don’t slip and fall. Porn star and marketing director for an adult film company Jiz Lee has some sage advice, first of which is simply to use a bath mat: it will make shower sex less slippery and add some cushion to your knees for giving head. You can also opt out of standing and use a bench or stool: “Benches or shower chairs can also be used to prop a leg up, or to lean on if you’re bent over,” they said. 

Lee cautioned people against standing on the ledge of the bathtub, or holding onto the curtain rod. Also, whenever you adjust positions, take a second to make sure you feel steady and stable—not just to avoid potential injury, but also because it’s much harder to have good sex if you’re worried about falling. Lastly, Lee encouraged people to “lean into the entire sensory experience of having sex not only with yourself, or your partners, but with the water”—if you have a removable shower head, you can experiment with hydro stimulation.

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Check out more about how to safely have shower sex: https://www.vice.com/en/article/qjpn35/how-to-have-sex-in-the-shower

Ex-Member Of Charles Manson’s Cult Reveals He Lured Her With Mind-Blowing Sex

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A former Manson cult member opened up about Manson’s powerful, sexual hold over her. The retired social worker said in an interview recently that Manson was an incredible lover, which was part of his allure. “He was amazing,” she said.

She added, “He was so tender, he would bring you just to the point of orgasm and then he would bring you back. Like a Kama Sutra kind of thing, you know, just bring you up, and bring you up, and bring you back.” When she saw the cult leader for the first time, he was walking out of a trailer naked with one of his lovers. The first time he seduced her, they had an orgy with a couple who were having sex above them in her van—later that night, she agreed to give Manson her van and the $14,000 she had in a trust fund account.

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Check out more about Charles Manson’s former lover saying he was an incredible lover: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9517681/Ex-member-Charles-Mansons-cult-opens-tender-sex-murderer.html

Middle-Aged Women Who Sleep Poorly Have Lower Sex Drive, Study Finds

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Getting a good night’s sleep is vital for the sex lives of middle-aged women, according to a study. Researchers found women who had regularly struggled to fall asleep or woke up often were 50 percent more likely to have a lower libido. This could be because being exhausted releases more stress hormones, which suppress sexual desire.   

The study was done by Mayo Clinic researchers, who questioned 3,200 women about their sleep and sex habits. Results showed women who had poor sleep quality were 48 percent more likely to have significant sexual problems. The director of the Mayo Clinic’s center for women’s health said the results pointed to the necessity of a good night’s sleep: “If you put a platter of sleep and a platter of sex in front of a tired woman, she’s going to pick the sleep every time,” she said.

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Check out more about study showing women who sleep poorly have a lower sex drive: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9495103/Middle-aged-women-sleep-badly-lower-sex-drive-study-finds.html

Regret Does Not Keep Women From Avoiding One Night Stands

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It seems regret is not as powerful as the urge to get it on. Women tend to regret casual sex more than men—but not enough to stop themselves from having more one night stands, a new study reveals. Norwegian researchers found women experience higher levels of “sexual regret,” meaning they’re more likely to wish they hadn’t hooked up with a random person—but they still don’t feel bad enough about it to change their behavior next time.

Researchers believe this is because of the power of women’s high sex drive. The experts found little evidence that sexual regret is “functional,” or in other words, it doesn’t really contribute to any real change in behavior. “We are not that surprised,” said study’s author. “For the most part, people continue with the same sexual behavior and the same level of regret.”

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Check out more about a study showing regret does not keep women from avoiding one night stands: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-9440263/Women-regret-casual-sex-men-scientists-claim.html

OnlyFans Bans Public Sex Content On Site

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OnlyFans is saying NO to the great outdoors and public sex—and adult entertainers are not happy about it. The site has updated its terms of use to add sexually explicit videos filmed in public to its long list of banned content. Specifically, the subscription service will no longer allow content that “was recorded in or is being broadcast from a public place where members of the public are reasonably likely to see the activities being illustrated.”

Some OnlyFans creators say they are being targeted when their content doesn’t even really violate the rules: “My niche and content has always been centered on outdoor and nature content,” adult content creator Aspen Eden told Vice. Without warning, OnlyFans abruptly took down her X-rated outdoor content: “All of my content was either created on private property, secluded areas deep in the mountains/deserts or national forests,” she said. While there are no federal laws against public nudity, Eden told Vice she suspects the new rule is the platform’s attempt to appease payment processors that “maintain a web of rules regulating adult-industry income.”

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Check out more about OnlyFan’s new rules banning public sex: https://nypost.com/2021/03/16/onlyfans-bans-public-sex-content-on-site/

Tasty Teaser: Marathon Calls

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Many callers are fairly quick, only a few minutes, which is fine, the minutes add up. Sometimes however you get a marathon caller. People will ask, “What was your longest call you ever had?” Personally, it was ten hours and eight minutes. You do get calls once in a while that go that long, and sometimes the caller is not interested in a back and forth conversation, which can be very difficult. They literally want to just be entertained. So you feel like you are doing a one woman monologue with the occasional grunt on the other end of the phone.

This one caller was always only around a five minute man, but one night he went for five hours. He hardly spoke. He was content to listen to me ramble, and ramble I did, about everything from old vacations decades before to the raccoons in the attic. He had been drinking and was drunk, and I honestly did not think he was paying much attention to the many odd and rambling stories I’d related over the five hour call. He continued to call though and even though he went back to his average of five minute calls, even years later he made references to things I’d said during that marathon call. He’d been paying attention to what I’d said.

You can get a sore throat from talking one sided for so many hours, that is a fact. Some callers are genuinely lonely and are lacking ones in their life to communicate with, so it can make you feel good to know you are the highlight in someone’s day. To just be there for them and let them share their troubles with you they have no one else to share them with.

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Tasty Teaser: Non-Sex Calls

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Phone sex is not the only thing callers are calling for when they call a phone sex company. Many people not in the business would not understand this. Some callers are seeking an audience of sorts. Maybe they are too shy to go perform at a local bar or club, and they like to show off their skills. Some callers have sung songs over the phone, played the guitar, recited poetry they’ve written, revealed their hopes and dreams. Other callers have asked me to sing to them, sent me lyrics they have rewritten to popular songs, or just songs they like. One asked me to sing “Hound Dog” by Elvis Presley!

Some callers that are lonely even want you to tell them you love them, and they like to say it to you as well. Not all phone sex ladies are comfortable doing that and will not. To some of us, it’s like an actress reading their lines, and just part of the business. If it can make someone feel better and there’s no harm, why not? They likely haven’t heard those words in a long time to be paying a stranger to say them to them.

Some are just calling for general conversation that is non sexual. Those kinds of calls are like an oasis in the desert, very welcome. To just have a genuine conversation with someone and talk about things is really wonderful, and the time flies during those types of calls. Many people underestimate just how lonely some people are, so we really are providing an invaluable service here. We can offer advice when ones tell us their problems, and we hope for the best. So yes, this is a phone sex platform, and it’s mostly naughty talk that’s going on here, but there’s many more conversations that take place on NiteFlirt beyond phone sex!

Tasty Teaser: Giantess Fantasies

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There is a fetish that some callers have called giantess. For those not familiar, it’s where a man either desires to be shrunken down to a very tiny size, or else he desires for the woman to be very, very big. Think back to the classic movies, “The Incredible Shrinking Man,” and “Attack of the 50 Foot Woman.” Yes, there are men that find those scenarios extremely arousing. Do you want to be so small you could live in the bra of your desired lady? Or maybe you dream of being carried around in her purse, a “Purse Pet.”

A regular household could be very potentially dangerous for a tiny, bug sized man that’s so small he can scamper under doors. Most of these men are quite submissive, and desire a dominant female that is in control of them in every conceivable way. The woman could easily rinse them down the drain, or smother them with her bosom as they slept in her bra as she went about her day carrying them between her breasts. Their little penis, smaller than a grain of rice, not much use to anyone. They feel small, insignificant, invisible, an object of laughter and ridicule.

It’s humiliation of a different sort than many men crave, but it is humiliation nonetheless. Do you dream of a woman so tall she easily steps over tall houses and buildings? You crane your neck up to see the top of her, her breasts the size of hot air balloons. You marvel at her size, she is a true giantess, and she gets you harder than anything you could have ever imagined could. You could scramble up her leg to the huge heaven that awaits between her thighs, you’d get lost in it. You’d be surrounded by that womanly scent, her soft wetness. Oh what a lovely dream to have and explore on NiteFlirt.