Category Archives: Insights

NEWS: A Man’s Man Gets The Job Done!

I’ve dated all different types of guys, extroverts, introverts, aggressive, passive, and the unfortunate passive aggressive (never again). I’ve dated shy guys, confident dudes, and of course the lovely lumberjack types… they are my personal favs. A man who isn’t afraid to tell you what they want, when they want (in a respectful manner obv). A man who has a beard sent from the gods, Paul Bunyan features, and who prefers splitting wood vs. a session of p90x. Okay… for real, a man doesn’t need their face to grow like a chia pet or have a body like Zeus but a little authority in the bedroom can go a long way.

A recent study shows that women have more frequent orgasms when making sweet love to a masculine, dominant male. This study was conducted by the University of Pennsylvania (published in Evolution and Human Behavior) and focused on the correlation between the timing and regularity of female orgasms, and genetic qualities such as; attractiveness, facial symmetry, masculinity, and dominance. It’s so friggin’ true… simply taking off the panties mildly rough and whispering what you want will make your woman melt, guaranteed.

The researchers found that women reported having “more frequent and earlier timed” orgasms when having sex with the more dominant, masculine men. The men that made the dreams come true in the bedroom had “objectively-measured facial masculinity, observer-rated facial masculinity, partner-rated masculinity, and partner-rated dominance.” Ya hear that guys? Take the bull by the horns and lead the way.

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NEWS: This Story Might Not Have A Happy Ending!

It’s Friday and you should know there are important issues being discussed in China, like whether or not “happy endings” at massage parlors are considered crimes if it doesn’t involve sexual intercourse. I’ve been wondering about the same thing for years! I’m glad Chinese law enforcers are finally banging this issue out.

Now keep in mind prostitution is illegal in China but the question of whether or not getting jacked-off by a masseuse is illegal or not is still being handled by courts, police, and even state media. Sources say that the debate is focused on the less elite massage parlors and hair salons that have coy advertisements for services such as: “hitting the airplane” and “breast massage”.

These services are pretty standard in Beijing and other Chinese cities but this just became of topic of discussion this week after a crackdown in the Guangdong province, seems as though the happy ending is coming to a head. On that note, happy Friday, happy hour, happy ending?

Get to Know “Juicy_2010″…

With Juicy_2010

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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
Well I actually heard about it on tv !! I was like I have to do that.


What is your favorite part of being a Flirt on NiteFlirt?
My favorite part definitely has to be the customers. Some of them are so great. I love abusing the ones who love to be abused and amusing the ones that love to be amused.


What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and phone with cam (cam sex) calls on NiteFlirt? 

I have a ton of hobbies. I love to swim and dance. I absolutely love to dance. I usually go out to the clubs or to the beach. So if your looking for the princess she’s usually at the club or the pool.

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
A Strawberry. Strawberries are always so hot and sexy. You always picture them with whipped cream licking them off of each other.

Is there any kind of specific fetish that you yourself enjoy?
I absolutely love financial domination!

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NEWS: Air Sex Championships 2013

I’m always a day late and a dollar short, how did I not know about an air sexin’ contest!? I have been air humping for years, it always gets a chuckle, (think Steve Buscemi in Airheads).

According to the Huff Post the 4th annual Sex Air Championships was held in NYC at Manhattan’s Cutting Room this past weekend. Air humping connoisseurs and skilled imaginary banana peelers came out to show off their unique talents. Comedian Chris Trew hosted the competition, and there were two simple rules: participants must have an imaginary partner on stage, and the O face must be imitated. Sounds fair and legit to me.

Best part of the story is the returning champ, “Jam Out With My Clam Out” took home the win for the second straight consecutive year. Host, Chris Trew told the Huff Post:

She’s just very good, she had the crowd with her the entire time, she did something I’ve never seen before. When she took her teeth out, then her husband who died and she kept jerking him off, it was so good.”

This is my type of performing arts! This reminds me of a video I came across of the soulful R&B Grammy winner Miguel doing the air freak nasty at one of his concerts, he most certainly would of taken home the gold this weekend if he participated.

Check out his bump n grind: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jCNf5h2fP8

NEWS: Prop 8 has met it’s fate! Hit the bricks!

California is chock full of soaring rainbow flags, smiles, and justice today. The Supreme Court ruled today that a portion of DOMA is unconstitutional, a 5-4 ruling! DOMA, the Defense of Marriage Act signed by President Bill Clinton in ’96 had prevented same sex couple’s marriages (that were recognized by their home state) to be recognized by the federal government. 

Well, say goodbye to that nonsense because after today’s verdict gay married couples will be eligible for the same federal benefits that heterosexual couples are granted once married, such as joint tax returns and social security benefits. Justice Anthony Kennedy stated in the majority opinion:

By seeking to displace this protection and treating those persons as living in marriages less respected than others, the federal statute is in violation of the Fifth Amendment.”

This is a monumental victory for gay rights and equality; everyone in love should have the chance to be lawfully married to the love of their life and receive equal benefits and recognition by our government. I am personally stoked for the Gay community at large and this is just one more giant step in the right direction. For more information on the Supreme Court ruling click here.

NEWS: The straight-laced folk want sex too!

Have you ever noticed that conservative people are risqué and scandalous on the sly? It’s pretty much like your token friend who grew up going to Catholic school that is the wild child out of the crew. According to a recent survey conducted by the British Journal of Health Psychology conservative men are more influenced by an erotic picture than a guy that isn’t shy about his enthusiasm for sex.

The study shows that men who have no interest or willingness to partake in casual sex are more apt to get freaky after seeing a sensual photo of a babe in a bikini. The study goes on to reveal that because there aren’t initial intentions to do the nasty from the get-go it can lead to unprotected sex.

“Think of this as similar to young teenagers drinking,” study researcher Megan Roberts, a psychologist at Brown University explained. “Most don’t go out explicitly intending to get drunk, but are willing if they are offered alcohol at a party. Likewise, many adults do not intend to have casual sex, but would be willing to do so if presented with the opportunity.”

This study doesn’t surprise me one bit, all of my gal pals that come off as demure and conservative are the friends that reallyyyy let their hair down when we’re partying and enjoying the fruits of the single life. I believe the findings in this survey are spot on, it makes sense that if you deny primal urges such as sex when you’re exposed to a sultry picture or subliminal sex images you’re going to want to quench that urge 10x more than someone that is always down for the cause.

Want To Understand How It Really Works?

By MissReaghan

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Hello, gents. Look, normally I would give you the big, eloquent speech about how I am a British-born Goddess, and all of you should bow before me and offer your money as a sacrifice, and blah, blah, blah, yadda, yadda, yadda. Not today, though.

Here is the real meat of the matter that needs to be choked down before we can have the sweet pudding of our fantasy time: You are a loser who needs to pay women to talk to you and act like they give any shred of a damn about you or to have phone sex with you if you are lucky. It is especially hard to get attractive women such as me because, well, we are hot and our time is more valuable. Sorry to tell you this, but I have had a little champagne tonight and did not quite feel up to the charade that all of us often feed you.

The truth is, well, none of us care about you in the slightest. Half the time, if we remember anything about you, it’s because you gave us a bucket of money or you are a frequent caller. But let’s face it, if number two is true, then that means number two is, too. Also, even if you do give us a bucket full of money, most financial domination Mistresses will still sound completely uninterested in you because now they just want to go online and buy shoes with the money you just gave them and your fantasies are impeding that process.

I feel bad for all of you, I really do. Well, kind of. So I tell you what, even though it might take you giving me money in the double digits, or even triple digits for some of you, to be worth my time, when you do make it worth it, I will act super-interested in what you have to say! Deal?

Good. Call me.

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NEWS: Humping For a Healthy Heart!

I was totally bummed after learning that James Gandolfini passed away this week because of a heart attack at the age of 51. I was a loyal ‘Sopranos’ fan, and honestly in my opinion there was something really sexy and charming about him. RIP, Mr. Gandolfini.

Heart Disease is something that should not be taken lightly, and everyone (men and women) should know their family’s health history, and take the proper initiatives to get their hearts checked out. Knowledge is power. Obviously eating healthy, exercising regularly, and living a life sans extreme cigs and excessive booze is going to help too!

Did you know that sex could reduce your chances of heart disease as well? According to the Daily Telegraph men that have sex at least twice a week can almost cut their chances of heart disease in half. This study included over 1,000 men and showed that “men who indulge in regular lovemaking are up to 45% less likely to develop life-threatening heart conditions than men who have sex once a month or less.” I’ve written articles in the past providing tons of other benefits of love making, you really can’t go wrong with this glorious activity, it’s a win-win situation.

So do yourself a favor, become familiar with your family health history and your own body, put forth effort to be healthful and kind to your body, and last but not least, fuck til your heart’s content! Happy Weekend.

Say Hello to “MistressCandice”…

By MistressCandice

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Domination was born of sex. It’s always been all about sex. Women owning their sexuality and yours. Whether through the use of pain for sexual pleasure, controlled orgasm, tease and denial it’s all about sex. Giving or withholding. That doesn’t mean it’s about intercourse but it can be. For Domination in the modern age, Domination is determined by the practicing Dominatrix.

There was a time in our history where Dominatrixes came under scrutiny and for them to continue practicing their trade for pay they had to remove sex from Domination. With the invent of the internet we are now able to put sex back into PRO Domination. Giving it or withholding it, all of it is a part of Domination. Many Prohibition Dommes still prefer to keep sex removed from their interaction, I do not. However I myself am more than a pro Domme.  I am and have been lifestyle for what seems forever, and we lifestyle Dommes never twisted the core of being a Dominatrix to suit the law. We didn’t have to.  Being a Dominatrix has always been legal. We only had to worry about safe, sane, and consensual.

Erotic hypnosis is exactly what it implies.  EROTIC is an adjective

Erotic: giving sexual pleasure or sexually arousing

Hypnosis:  an artificially induced trance state resembling sleep, characterized by heightened susceptibility to suggestion.

So while I am both A dominatrix and Erotic hypnotist I am also a Hypno Domme. Sometimes I combine all three, sometimes I just play in one realm or the other.  It depends on a couple of things.  One is my mood and the other is yours!

Now that we are clear on what I do know there is nothing to fear for when we play there is no safe word on the internet during hypnosis only a safe space. You draw the lines of the box that I play within. So there are twists and turns and surprises but all within the space we create.

-Mistress Candice

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NEWS: A one-night stand that lasts forever

Premarital sex is frowned upon by various cultures and religions, but in India if you play hide the sausage before you tie the knot, you’re considered married. A court in India has ruled that premarital sex equates to marriage! OMG if that was the case in the states I would be a modern day Liz Taylor, multiple marriages!

The deal is if an unwed couple of legal age “indulge in sexual gratification,” this will equate to a legit marriage, and they could be deemed “husband and wife,” according to The Hindu. Wow, can you imagine!? One minute you’re stoked that you scored, next thing you know you’ve got a ball and chain. For the full story click here.

On a side note, I would absolutely love to travel to India one day, soak in the spirituality and beauty but this is another reason why I love the USA. Appreciate your freedoms, people!