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Brits’ Top Sexual Fantasies

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A new survey asked British women and men about their sexual fantasies, and the results are titillating. The survey of 2,987 Brits asked respondents to list their top 10 sexual fantasies—and blindfolds and threesomes were the most popular. Sex in a Jacuzzi also ranked highly among women with 31 per cent favoring the kink. 

The fantasies didn’t just take place at home, with 26 per cent of women also saying that they’ve fantasized about having sex in an elevator. After threesomes, the second most popular fetish that men wanted to try was video call sex. Other kinky sex ranked highly, including role play, bondage, and anal sex.

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Check out more about Brits’ most popular sexual fantasies: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8805683/Top-sexual-fantasies-British-men-women-revealed.html

Survey Shows People Who Make Their Beds Have More Sex

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There’s a major incentive for making your bed each morning—you’ll get laid more. According to new research, nearly four in 10 Americans said it would be a total turn-off to date someone who doesn’t make their bed. The study split 2,000 Americans by bed-makers and non-bed-makers and found those who make their beds every day are having sex 25 percent more during their time in quarantine.

Bed-makers were also more likely than non-bed-makers to report that an unmade bed is a turn-off, at 55 percent of bed-makers compared to only 9 percent of non-bed-makers. In fact, 61 percent of non-bed-makers said an unmade bed wouldn’t be a deal-breaker on a date. So there you have it: more bed-making leads to more sex!

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Check out more about a survey showing bed-makers have more sex: https://nypost.com/2020/08/27/survey-says-bed-makers-are-getting-better-sleep-and-having-more-sex/

People Reveal What Surprised Them The Most About Having Sex For The First Time

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Reddit users have revealed the things that surprised them the most about having sex after doing it for the first time, from the initial awkwardness to the weird noises to the physical exertion. “I was like damn that is actually a lot of work,” one person wrote. “It made me understand Charles Barkley’s quote when talking about NBA teams playing three nights in a row — ‘I wouldn’t even want to have sex three nights in a row.”‘

Others mentioned bodily functions, including “all the weird noises” that are made during sex, while one person was surprised that “vaginas are like, super warm inside.” Some shared that it took sleeping with a member of the opposite sex to realize that they are gay: “I didn’t actually want to do it with guys anymore,” one woman explained. “My desire for dudes had been rooted in a curiosity about what sex would feel like, and once that curiosity was sated, latent lesbianism was like, ‘So, funny story…”‘

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Check out more about Reddit users sharing what surprised them about having sex for the first time: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8404627/People-reveal-surprised-sex-time.html

A Lot Of People Hide Their Kinks, Research Says

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Half of Americans have a kink they’d like to try with their partner — but haven’t brought it up, according to new research. A survey of 2,000 sexually-active Americans found it takes the average respondent a little over three months to feel comfortable bringing up a personal sexual interest to their partner. Results found 40 percent haven’t brought their kink up because they’re worried their partner will leave, while the same number are worried about being judged.

Conducted by OnePoll on behalf of a sex-positive lingerie brand, the survey delved into respondents’ “sexplorations” and how comfortable respondents feel with their partner. When partners are comfortable expressing their own needs, it leads to better sex — according to 90 percent of respondents. “We believe that speaking up for oneself and one’s pleasure is important.” said the CEO of the lingerie brand. “A satisfying sex life has benefits on one’s overall stress and attitude.”

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Check out more about a survey showing a lot of people hide their kinks: https://nypost.com/2020/06/09/a-lot-of-people-hide-their-kinks-because-theyre-afraid-their-partner-will-leave-them/

Rihanna Is The Most Popular Female Artist To Listen To During Sex

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Rihanna is more popular than ever—especially in the bedroom. The pop star is helping others find love, as it has been revealed she is the most popular female artist to listen to during sex. A new survey by a lingerie brand revealed that Spotify users have been getting down to her R&B inflected pop.

The top artist listened to when fucking is Canadian singer and rapper The Weeknd. Others featured in the top ten are Drake, Beyonce and Usher. Data also revealed that the songs most listened to during solo sex are “I Touch Myself” by Divinyls and “Sex With Me” by Rihanna.  

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Check out more about people listening to Rihanna during sex: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-8441949/Rihanna-named-popular-female-artist-listen-sex.html

Survey Reveals Ideal Dick Size To Make Women Cum

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According to a new survey, bigger is better—except when it’s not. The findings revealed by dating site Big One—a large penis dating site—show that 8 inches is the optimal dick size when it comes to making women orgasm. The same survey showed that climax-inducing capabilities drop off dramatically in anything bigger than 9 inches.

Big One explains, “Size does matter, but bigger is not always better.” The randy research found that 8-inch penises induced orgasms at a 44% success rate; coming in second was 9 inches with a 42% success rate. Big One adds, “If he doesn’t measure up, he can still deliver, and equally, if he’s massive, he can still disappoint!”

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Check out more about a survey revealing the ideal dick size to make women cum: https://nypost.com/2020/07/02/this-is-the-ideal-penis-size-to-make-women-climax-survey/

Sex Coach Leads Virtual Sexual Pleasure Workshops

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A sex coach whose former student includes Gwyneth Paltrow has put her popular classes online during the lockdown—and claims it’s the perfect time to work on your orgasms. Betty Dodson, 90, a bestselling author dubbed the “godmother of masturbation,” runs the New York-based Bodysex course, which was booked until 2021 with a wait list in the thousands. Betty, who has been teaching women since the 1970s, argued self-love is now more important than ever, saying “Pleasure is healing.”

She adds, “With modern life people go on retreats to slow down their brain… They say meditate, I say masturbate, which is a form of meditation.” She also spoke of the positive health benefits to having more orgasms, claiming they help boost the immune system and encourage better sleep by releasing oxytocin and endorphins. “I’m not a doctor or an essential worker but I felt like I had to do something for women during lockdown,” she says.

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Check out more about a sex coach putting her sexual pleasure workshops online: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8304813/Sex-coach-students-include-Gwyneth-Paltrow-leading-500-virtual-workshops-attic.html

Ron Jeremy Gives Quarantine Sex Advice

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Ron Jeremy is doing a public service for people bored sexually in quarantine. The 67-year-old porn star is doling out advice to spice up sex lives while in lockdown. He suggests using sex dolls, which feel “very lifelike”: he adds, “You add that to virtual reality, and then you’re actually having sex with what feels like a real woman.”

More importantly, Jeremy advises, people can “prepare” for “the real whopper” that will occur when they reunite in person and have sex. “Do a little dialogue … a little phone sex,” he suggests. “FaceTime where you can look at each other … while you’re actually having sex with yourself.” He suggests masturbating and using music as foreplay — specifically Beethoven’s Symphony No. 9, because “Even Beethoven had sex, too,” Jeremy says.

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Check out more of Ron Jeremy’s quarantine sex advice: 
https://pagesix.com/2020/05/18/here-are-ron-jeremys-tips-for-your-sex-life-while-in-quarantine/

Coronavirus Is Not Transmitted Sexually, Study Finds

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There is some good news during these bad times: the coronavirus cannot be sexually transmitted. While coronavirus can be transmitted from a simple cough, it does not appear to transmit through cum, according to new research. An international group of scientists in the US and China found no evidence of COVID-19 in the semen of 34 adult Chinese men who had tested positive for the deadly virus a month prior.

“If a disease like COVID-19 were sexually transmittable that would have major implications for disease prevention and could have serious consequences for a man’s long-term reproductive health,” the study’s co-author says. The new findings also set COVID-19 apart from diseases including Ebola and Zika, which can be sexually transmitted. While sex as an isolated action likely can’t pass along the virus, other intimate acts including kissing can, so the scientists still recommend practicing safe sex.

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Check out more about a study showing coronavirus cannot be sexually transmitted: https://nypost.com/2020/04/23/the-coronavirus-is-not-transmitted-sexually-study-finds/

App-Controlled Vibrators Are The Best Long-Distance Sex Toys

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There’s a silver lining to social distancing recommendations from the CDC—app-controlled vibrators! Unlike Bluetooth vibrators that have a smaller range of accessibility (only viable within 33 feet away), app-controlled vibrators can be used remotely from almost any place in the world as long as you have a strong enough WiFi. In other words, it is possible to have sex while following social isolation parameters and quarantine protocols—you just have to get creative with it.

Looking for someone to play with (safely)? Try searching r/ToyControl—you can make a quick post similar to what someone would share on Craigslist Personals (RIP), a brief description of what you’re looking for (M4M, F4M, F4A, etc.) and the brand of toy you have. Some Redditors even use this page to solicit long-term play partners, offering to buy them new toys among other things. You or your partner can control the toy from your smartphone or any iOS or Android device loaded with the correct app (including your smartwatch–which is great during quarantine).

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Check out more about app-controlled vibrators: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/app-controlled-vibrator-long-distance-bluetooth-teledildonics/