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Dr. Ruth Has Some Good Cyber Sex Advice

Dr. Ruth has good sex advice for singles wanting company during the coronavirus lockdown. “Make sure you do something that is pleasurable and if you are alone, make sure that you decide when this is over you are going to find a partner,” the iconic sex therapist says. She suggests when it comes to using the internet to get off, it’s best to turn to “fantasy” privately instead of having online cyber sex with video. But, “if you do feel sexual, by all means bring yourself to sexual satisfaction,” Dr. Ruth wisely says.

She also says “bravo!” to the NY Department of Health who released guidelines last week, “for being so forthcoming and explicit that even I was surprised that they are talking not only about kissing but about some very explicit sexual provisions.” She says she was pleasantly surprised to read about “rimming” in the guidelines: “It shows us that things have progressed, that we are willing to speak about these things.” The NY DOH also suggested limiting the number of sexual partners and washing hands and sex toys for at least 20 seconds after sex.

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Check out more about Dr. Ruth’s advice for having safe cyber sex: https://pagesix.com/2020/03/26/dr-ruth-warns-quarantined-singles-should-be-careful-with-cyber-sex/?_ga=2.41554338.1439512273.1585968977-654912625.1556249361

Twitter Thread Offers Good Sex Advice

#SexAdviceForYourPartner started trending on Twitter, but people used the hashtag to give general sex advice. From foreplay to the proper way to love on the clit, Twitter had many wise things to say about good sex. Here are the best pieces of sex advice on Twitter:

  1. “Ask for what you want. Ask for what they want. Consent and communication are the best foreplay.” Yes!
  2. “Guys, don’t be rough on a woman’s clit. Unless she tells you to, treat the clit with a gentle hand, fingers, or your tongue. Give the clit respect.” Love = respect
  3. “It’s not a test. Tell them what they need to know.” Sex isn’t a midterm, people!
  4. “Take off your damn socks.” That’s just good manners.
  5. “It’s okay to laugh sometimes. This is supposed to be fun.” Good sex is always fun!
  6. “Stay hydrated.” Good advice for those fuck fests!
  7. “If I say ‘don’t stop’…it means just that. Don’t slow down. Don’t speed up.” Please and thank you!
  8. “if u wanna keep him/her, u need to try new things. spice up the sex life, incorporate toys, tease each other, change locations, take sexcations, etc!” Who doesn’t love keeping things spicy in the bedroom?

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Check out more about Twitter’s sex advice: https://www.buzzfeed.com/ryanschocket2/people-are-tweeting-sex-advice-for-their-partner

Men Can Smell When A Woman Is Horny, Study Says

Men can smell when a woman is turned on by the aroma of her sweat — and they like it, according to a new study. Researchers asked men to rate women’s aromas during various states of arousal to determine the sexiest scent. During experiments they had the women work out then watch porn or read “Fifty Shades of Grey” before swabbing their sweat for testing.

The results — published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior — found that men were definitely more attracted to the aroused women in all three trials. “This research suggests that these signals released along with corresponding visual and auditory expressions of sexual interest can produce a stronger overall signal that increases sexual motivation,” one of the researchers said. “Sexual interest may entail more than meets the eye and we hope that the current findings encourage further research to examine the role of sexual olfactory signals in human communication.”

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Check out more about a study showing men can smell when a woman is horny: https://nypost.com/2020/03/03/men-can-smell-when-a-woman-is-turned-on-study-says/

Sex Therapist Says You Should Be In An Open Relationship

A Canadian sex therapist and author of “A Happy Life in an Open Relationship: The Essential Guide to a Healthy and Fulfilling Nonmonogamous Love Life” believes the secret to a happy, long-term relationship is being nonmonogamous. She argues millions of people would improve and strengthen their marriages and relationships if they accepted that “for many of us, one partner cannot meet all our needs.” She explains how being in an open relationship allowed her to finally explore her bisexuality and kinks.

“I knew I was interested in women because I always liked watching lesbian porn,” she says, describing her first “sensuous” sexual experience with a woman. Being in an open relationship also allowed her to explore BDSM, since her partner “tried kinky sex but doesn’t like it.” She enjoys spanking, dirty talk, handcuffs, hair pulling and mild, pleasurable pain with many partners, while her partner also has casual and longer-term sex partners. “What we do with other people does not matter,” she writes. “In fact, my joy is seeing him happy in other relationships.”

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Check out more about a sex therapist’s book on the benefits of nonmonogamous relationships: https://nypost.com/2020/03/09/why-this-sex-therapist-says-you-should-be-in-an-open-marriage/

The Precise Amount Of Time It Takes A Woman To Orgasm, According To Science

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sex9A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine used a stopwatch to measure the time it took women to climax—and found the magic number is 13:46 minutes. For eight weeks, a group of 645 women from 20 countries set their sexy-time stopwatches each time they got it on. Researchers found that only 31.4 percent of participants climaxed through penetrative sex, while 68.6 percent of the ladies needed some other form of action, including kissing, “light biting” or touching other body parts.

Some positions were more effective than others, with woman on top as the most popular for cumming— 42.2 percent of ladies said this was the most optimal for them. Relationship status didn’t matter either, since it took about the same time for both married and unmarried women to finish. Another interesting finding: women who wear socks during fucking can increase their pleasure.

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Check out more about a study measuring the precise time it takes women to reach orgasm: https://nypost.com/2020/02/12/heres-precisely-how-long-it-takes-to-make-a-woman-orgasm/

Sex Surrogate Gives Man With Disability A ‘Rocket-Propelled’ Sex Life

17052634_81459f773e_z (1)A 28-year-old man who has cerebral palsy had never had an erotic experience of any kind—until a “sex surrogate” came into his life. The full-time sex surrogate and therapist helps others explore their sexuality and develop skills through one-on-one, hands-on coaching. Typical clients include people who struggle with intimacy and anxiety, have experienced sexual trauma, or who have difficulty reaching orgasm, with 60 percent having disabilities.

The sex surrogate meets with the man once a month, with a typical session involving busting myths about sexuality, teaching him healthy masturbation practices and helping to boost his confidence. “Working with a sex surrogate has blasted a great, big, rocket-propelled grenade through the myth that I am disabled and I therefore have relinquished the right to sexual expression,” the man said. “That’s bollocks!” The sex surrogate—who does not have sex with her clients—said, “If by working with someone, I can help them or I can support them in finding some more joy or a greater sense of self, then that for me is magic.”

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Check out more about a sex surrogate who helps people with disabilities enjoy a healthy sex life: https://nypost.com/2020/01/24/sex-surrogate-gives-man-with-disability-a-rocket-propelled-sex-life/

Science Confirms Weed Makes Sex Better

Sexy St Patricks Day WomanAccording to a new study, science has verified something that many cannabis users have known for ages: weed makes sex better. The study, which was published in the Journal of Health Economics, found that the amount of sex people have increases in states with medical cannabis. Researchers believe that marijuana lowers one’s inhibitions and makes them more able to indulge in behaviors that otherwise might cause anxiety or shame.

“Liberalized marijuana laws clearly lead to more use, and the effects from an epidemiological standpoint show clear increases in disinhibited sexual responses,” a sexologist says. There’s also a growing body of evidence suggesting that some compounds, including THC and possibly CBD, can increase vaginal and clitoral blood flow, which then signals to the brain that the body is down to fuck. “There may well be some women who smoke up before sex because it makes everything easier and perhaps better, but it also may affect the quality of orgasm, making it easier, with good sympathetic blood flow, to have one, and easier in the brain to suspend disbelief and let yourself go.”

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Check out more about why weed makes sex better: https://www.portlandmercury.com/blogtown/2020/01/31/27908366/science-confirms-it-sex-and-weed-are-a-great-match

Australians Are The Horniest On The Planet For Valentines

feetIt turns out Aussie millennials are the horniest on the planet this time of year. A global survey revealed Aussie millennials have more sex than any other country on Valentine’s Day. Researchers found a whopping 57% had sex with their partner last Valentine’s Day.

That’s more than all other countries surveyed, including France (44%), Germany (48%), UK (41%) and USA (46%). Australia knows how to really celebrate V-Day! Way to keep things sexy in the land Down Under (wink wink!).

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Check out more about Australians fucking the most on Valentines: https://www.buzzfeed.com/marielasummerhays01/sex-toys-for-valentines-day

Women Who Fuck Less Frequently At Risk For Early Menopause

Having sex less frequently is linked to earlier menopause, according to a new study. Researchers analyzed data from a 10-year national study of almost 3,000 women, finding that women who engaged in sexual activity every week were 28 percent less likely to have experienced menopause than those having sex less than once a month. “Similarly, those who had sex monthly were 19% less likely to have attained menopause—defined as 12 months without a period—than those who had sex less than once a month,” reports CNN.

The researchers defined sexual activity as including masturbation, so the generalized menopause link applies to solo sex as well as partnered sex; and the definition of partnered sex was broad enough to include “sexual touching or caressing.” Although the study simply found a correlation between less sex and earlier menopause, researchers speculate from the results that the body might take hints from frequent sex that there is a possibility of reproducing. On the other hand, if you’re not having sex “you’re not going to reproduce, there’s no point ovulating—you’re better off using that energy elsewhere,” explains the lead author.

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Check out more about a study showing a link between having less sex and earlier menopause: https://jezebel.com/fuck-less-frequently-for-a-fun-surprise-menopause-1841020874?utm

Wendy Williams Publicly Declares She Wants To Fuck Larry David

volcanoAccording to Jezebel, over 2/3’s of readers voted they would have sex with Larry David. And now Wendy Williams is adding herself to the long line of people who want to fuck the famous curmudgeon. On her talk show, she talked about meeting him and realizing “all of a sudden, I started to feel my panties drop. I mean, they didn’t but yeah! Yeah!”

“He was just cool as a cucumber,” she remembered. “And he’s older, but you know what? He had a flatty [stomach],” she added. “There’s something virile about him…and he seemed like he could dig a black girl.” Experts agree: Larry David is fuckable.

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Check out more about Wendy Williams wanting to fuck Larry David: https://themuse.jezebel.com/wendy-williams-lusts-for-larry-david-and-is-sorry-for-1841042298?utm