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Dominatrix Whips Couples Into Shape With BDSM Therapy

body-1095226_640One New York City intimacy coach is taking a radical approach to help kinky couples with their sex lives. The dominatrix charges $500 an hour to help adventurous couples explore their BDSM side. “I want to help couples get rid of shame and explore sexually,” she says.

In addition to BDSM therapy sessions where couples can talk openly about their desires and fantasies, she also offers “apartment therapy.” She consults couples about kink-friendly furniture—like a “blow-job chair”—and creating spaces to optimize sexual play. Her approach is simple: “It’s good to have a little makeover and awaken those desires. And many sex toys.” She explains, “If you’re connected with someone on the level where you can share your dirtiest secrets and your wants and needs then you’re truly connected.”

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Check out more about the dominatrix who offers BDSM therapy: https://nypost.com/video/wealthy-new-yorkers-are-flocking-to-this-dominatrix-for-bdsm-therapy/

Fortnite Searches On Pornhub Double After Season 6 Launch

cup-1010916_1920Players of the popular video game Fortnite have found another popular place to enjoy the game: Pornhub. Searches for Fortnite terms have more than doubled after the recent launch of the game’s sixth season, according to new data from Pornhub. “Fortnite” was already within Pornhub’s top 25 search terms for 2018, equating to hundreds of thousands of additional searches a day.

The top Fortnite-related search terms are “Fortnite hentai” followed by “Fortnite porn,” “Fortnite parody” and “Fortnite cosplay.” Interestingly, a number of Fortnite characters were also named as top Fortnite-related search terms on Pornhub, with the most-searched one being Sunstrider from season 5 followed by Zoey from season 4 of the game. And not surprisingly, one of the newest characters in the game, the cowgirl-themed Calamity, currently ranks as the third-most searched Fortnite character on Pornhub. Giddy up!

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Check out more about Fortnite porn searches on Pornhub: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-6232277/Fortnite-season-6-searches-Pornhub-doubled-launch.html

Fetish App Whiplr Sparks Controversy With Privacy Fears

5942090561_8656911f4b_zA popular fetish app has been called out for being very very bad—not in a good way. Whiplr, which bills itself as the “world’s biggest online fetish community,” was found to be storing users’ passwords in plain text. It stores unmasked user credentials in its internal database, which leaves them wide open to hackers.

The news is very distressing to kinksters, considering that many Whiplr users choose to remain anonymous. After the flaw was pointed out, Whiplr said it would implement greater security measures to protect users’ credentials, saying “We took steps to make sure this never happens again.” Whiplr says it has now secured passwords with one-way encryption and will be “adding more security measures” in the future—but still, it marks a troubling security flaw for an app that previously pledged to help protect users’ identities. This is the type of dangerous situation that is definitely not hot…

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Check out more about Whiplr compromising users’ private information: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-6143771/Worlds-biggest-online-fetish-community-Whiplr-stores-user-passwords-plain-text.html

People Think Everyone Is Having A Lot Of Sex, Survey Says

white-1822497_640It seems men in the US think women are having a lot of sex, with a lot of people. According to a new survey, men think women aged 18 to 29 have sex nearly four times as much as they actually do. Men guessed that women had sex 23 times in a month, but the actual number was an average of 5 to 6 times.

Women were slightly more accurate, guessing that women had sex an average of 12 times a month — but that was still double the reality. In general, everyone thinks everyone else is having lots of great sex, with lots and lots of people, but that isn’t accurate. Researchers believe these exaggerated perceptions could have to do with the unrealistic depictions of sex people see in porn: “It’s not shocking to me, but what it does tell me is we have a lot more work to do.” Cheers to real sex!

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Check out more about a survey that shows everyone thinks everyone else is fucking all the time: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/laurenstrapagiel/how-much-sex-is-normal-women-men

Night Owls Are More Relaxed About Casual Sex

white-1822497_640It seems night owls might be more open to, ahem, evening activities—especially casual ones. Night owls, who naturally prefer to wake up later and stay up longer, tend to have more relaxed attitudes towards casual sex, a new study finds. The study looked at the different behaviors of night owls and “larks” in terms of their willingness to engage in uncommitted sex.

According to the study, larks, who are early to bed and early to rise, are likely to be more conservative sexually. But night owls are more open towards casual encounters and are more likely to fantasize about strangers. However, when it came to their actual behavior, only the female nightowls actually had more one-night stands (than female larks); male nightowls did not.

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Check out more about a study that shows night owls are more open to casual sex: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6005317/Night-owls-stay-longer-relaxed-casual-sex.html

6 ‘Innocent’ Things That Set Off People’s Sexual Awakenings

13945229459_f7c474edc0_zSometimes, it’s the most unexpected things that gets us hot. Whether it’s a toy or a character from a Disney movie, everyone remembers that one strange thing that turned them on. Here are 6 “innocent” things that accidentally sparked people’s sexual awakenings.

  1. Walmart’s arcade games
    “They had this one game that was a snowmobile that you rode on and raced around a track. Well, the snowmobile seat vibrated. Needless to say, it was my very favorite game.” You’re in the driver’s seat now, baby!
  2. When Captain Hook kidnapped Tiger Lily
    “The scene in Peter Pan where Tiger Lily is kidnapped by Captain Hook to act as bait for Peter undoubtedly sparked my BDSM kink.” They don’t call it a “fantasy” for nothing!
  3. Ralphie Tenelli’s mom on The Magic School Bus
    “I recently rewatched my favorite episode of The Magic School Bus since it went on Netflix. While I was watching, I realized that Ralphie’s mom – Dr. Tennelli – was definitely why I had liked it. This should’ve been an early sign of my bisexuality.” The MILFS of cartoons…
  4. Nik-L-Nips
    “Anyone remember those squeeze Kool-Aid bottles? With the twist-off tops that you had to suck on? Yeah, I became obsessed with sucking because of those.” Yum!
  5. Jasmine and Jafar kissing
    “That scene in Aladdin where Jasmine kisses Jafar. As I was watching it, I suddenly needed to pee.” Who can forget when she lets the silk scarf seductively slide down her body?
  6. Mom’s “back massager”
    “When I discovered my mom’s back massager felt really good if you sat on it.” Yup, it’ll do that!

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Check out more about what innocent things set off people’s sexual awakenings:

https://www.buzzfeed.com/sydrobinson1/innocent-childhood-things-that-accidentally-sparked-sexual-a

Don’t Reuse Your Condoms, The CDC Warns

https-%2f%2fblueprint-api-production-s3-amazonaws-com%2fuploads%2fcard%2fimage%2f117696%2fmain-image_zframwCondoms are a great way to practice safe sex—when used correctly. Apparently, that doesn’t always happen, according to the CDC (the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention). Recently, they issued a warning on Twitter, saying: “We say it because people do it: Don’t wash or reuse condoms! Use a fresh one for each sex act.”

The CDC added, “Incorrect use, such as reusing a condom or using more than one at a time, diminishes the protective effect of condoms by leading to condom breakage, slippage, or leakage.” Of course, some Twitter users’ responses were pretty great: “Hold on babe, let me just grab one off the clothes line…” Another tweet said, “Well, what the hell am I supposed to do with all these condoms in the dishwasher now?” Condoms are a single-use item (duh): “Let’s say you have sex three times in one night — you should be changing the condom three times or before the next sex act,” says the CDC.

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Check out more about the CDC’s tweet about not reusing condoms: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/carolinekee/dont-wash-reuse-condoms-cdc-warns

Sometimes Men Aren’t Always Happy After Sex, Study Finds

just4pleasureA new study discovered a very surprising fact: sometimes men don’t feel happy after sex. Past research has found that post-coital dysphoria—the experience of sadness, crying, anxiety, or irritability after otherwise hot sex—can affect some women. But this latest study is the first time the strange condition has been documented in men.

Researchers surveyed more than 1,200 men from several different countries, finding that 41 percent had experienced symptoms of post-coital dysphoria, though only 4 percent experienced symptoms with any regularity. The study says that the range of emotions after sex include “not wanting to be touched, a desire to be left alone or to leave the room, and feeling unsatisfied, annoyed and fidgety.” Researchers still don’t understand the phenomenon, but explain “the male experience of sex can be far more varied and complex than previously thought.”

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Check out more about a study that shows men sometimes aren’t happy after sex: https://jezebel.com/sometimes-men-get-sad-after-sex-1827967387

City Council Candidate Posts Nude Photo Of Wife On Campaign Site

naked beautiful bodyA St. Paul city council candidate demonstrated how not to win an election, after posting a nonconsensual pornographic photo of his wife on his campaign website. His wife filed a restraining order against him, so he allegedly thought revenge porn was the best way to get back at her. The wife said she was “aware of the picture and was working with her attorney.”

The candidate claims his “accounts were hacked and he no longer has access so can’t take photo down.” He also said his wife had his passwords and was sabotaging him. The disgraced candidate has since been arrested, and his campaign website has been deleted. Not the sexiest way to run for office…

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Check out more about a candidate who posted a pornographic pic of his wife on his campaign site: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/st-paul-david-martinez-revenge-porn/

Most Women Who Watch Gay Male Porn Imagine Themselves As Men

mtqynjuwodk4ndmzmtg5mtkxAccording to a new study, more than half of women who watch gay male porn “imagine themselves” as men during their sexual fantasies. Researchers looked at data over a 5-year period from 500 women who watch male on male erotica and found that 55 percent of women surveyed fantasized about being the opposite sex in the porno. Researchers believe it’s hotter for women to identify with gay male porn stars rather than with female porn stars because they’re so often depicted as sexual objects that are there for men’s pleasure.

The study also revealed that 37 percent of all gay porn streamed on PornHub is actually watched by women. And gay male porn was the second most popular choice for female users of PornHub for the past two years. “While some meet the existence of women enjoying m/m sexually explicit media with surprise, there is growing acceptance that it is perhaps not quite as uncommon as first thought,” said the study’s head researcher.

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Check out more about how women who watch gay male porn imagine themselves as men: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-5966155/More-half-women-watch-gay-porn-imagine-MEN-erotic-sexual-fantasies.html