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BDSM Community Furious At Schneiderman’s ‘Role-Playing’ Defense

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_bdsm_chateauAnybody who has kinky sex knows the importance of giving consent before engaging in role-playing and rough sex. That’s why members of the kink community are outraged that Eric Schneiderman, in resigning as New York’s attorney general because of alleged violence toward several women, depicted the abuse as “role-playing and other consensual sexual activity.” Since Ronan Farrow co-authored the New Yorker story that first revealed the allegations against Schneiderman, various online communities on social media and blogs devoted to BDSM have explained that any non-negotiated encounter is “ABUSE. End of story.”

Ronan Farrow also spoke to CNN, adding “that this was not role-playing, that this was not ‘Fifty Shades of Grey.’ It wasn’t in a gray area at all.” EJ Dickson, an editor of MensHealth.com wrote “It is one of the very basic tenets of BDSM. Often, sex acts will be negotiated beforehand in the form of contracts, and either way, anyone practicing BDSM responsibly will implement a ‘safe word’ to make it clear if they are uncomfortable with anything happening.” Hey, Schneiderman, don’t drag kinksters down in the mud with you!

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Check out more about Schneiderman’s offensive BDSM defense when accused of abuse: https://nypost.com/2018/05/08/bdsm-community-angry-at-schneidermans-role-playing-depiction/

Have More Sex By Doing These Two Household Chores

Mistress_Olivia_Vexx-03Want to get dirty with your partner? Better start cleaning up first! According to a new study, couples who share more housework have more sex. Not surprisingly, the couples were happiest when they divided tasks evenly—and couples where both partners dusted and cleaned the bathroom had sex nearly two more times a month.

Psychologists and sexperts note that if women feel burdened by doing too much housework, they will feel less like getting intimate with their partner because they don’t feel supported. “If they’re not as tired, or less stressed, then they’re more able to relax — and more likely to want to connect to a partner,” says a psychologist. Researchers also talk about “choreplay,” or when a partner chips in with housework without needing to be asked—you know, the other person might very much be in the mood to “express their gratitude.”

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Check out more about how splitting chores leads to more sex in relationships: https://nypost.com/2018/05/09/have-more-sex-by-doing-these-two-household-chores/

U.K. Adults May Have To Buy ‘Porn Passes’

Screen Shot 2016-07-08 at 1.35.36 AMAdults in the United Kingdom might need to buy more than just cigarettes and condoms at their local corner store…if they want to watch porn, that is. New age verification laws set to be implemented later this year would require anyone who wants to view pornographic websites to buy a “porn pass” from the corner store. The U.K. is cracking down on underage porn watching, which is why it wants to require the estimated 25 million citizens who regularly visit adult websites to prove they’re not underage.

These passes will cost around $14. To prove their age, buyers will have to present a passport or driver’s license to the shopkeeper. “A wide variety of online age verification solutions exist, or are in development, and they will have to abide by these high standards,” said a spokesperson. Way to live up to your stuffy, prudish stereotype, the U.K.

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Check out more about porn passes in the U.K.: https://www.dailydot.com/debug/uk-porn-passes/

The Most Popular Places To Fuck Outside Of The Bedroom

NiteFlirt_best_Phone _Sex_engagement in the carCouples who experiment with having sex outside of the bedroom are more likely to be satisfied with their relationships and with their sex lives, a new study finds. House Method asked more than a thousand people to reveal their favorite places to fuck at home other than the bedroom. The findings prove that spontaneity and experimentation is key to keeping the excitement alive in a relationship.

The most popular spot to have sex is the living room or family room, with 96.6 per cent, followed by the bathroom (82.8 per cent), the guest room (64.9 per cent), the kitchen (57.5 per cent), and the den (56.6 per cent). The study also found that couples who have sex outside of the bedroom fuck more frequently, at 10.9 times per week — compared to 5.8 times per week for couples who only get it on in their beds. As for sex positions, 69 was most popular in the guest bedroom, living room, and den, while standing is most popular in the bathroom, kitchen, and laundry room, and doggy style is most popular in the living room, bathroom, and kitchen.

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Check out more about the most popular places to fuck outside of the bedroom: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5728509/Where-people-like-sex-outside-bedroom.html

3D Virtual Reality Porn With 700 Adult Performers Will Be Launched This Summer

A German company is promising to revolutionize porn with a brand new type of adult entertainment. They’ve created a VR experience where participants can play with over 700 avatars scanned from real-life porn stars. Participants wear VR goggles and remote controls which appear as hands on the screen letting users fully interact with the porn avatars.

700 adult actresses have already been scanned into the database, including German stars Texas Patti and Micaela Schaefer, but the company plans to scan even more into its system. The company says that 3D avatars of adult entertainers will mimic their facial features and movements to a high degree of accuracy by scanning the porn stars using special sensors fitted to a bodysuit. The exciting new technology should be out by summer.

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Check out more about 3D VR porn: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5630321/3D-virtual-reality-porn-released-viewers-interact-digital-versions-700-porn-stars.html

This Company Wants To Pay You Virtual Money To Watch Porn

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Gizmodo explains, “Like many popular cryptocurrencies, VIT is built on an open-source blockchain, which is where tokens are generated and distributed. It is also where each user’s engagement on the platform—watching videos or commenting, for example—is recorded.” According to the company, documenting users’ data lets porn platforms “more accurately identify viewers preferences, allowing them to refine and create better content for viewers.” Since users readily hand over their data on social media sites and apps, this isn’t a unique model. Still, it remains to be seen whether people will want more, ahem, sensitive data—like what they’re getting off to—to be handed over to strangers.

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Check out more about the company that pays you to watch porn in exchange for your data: https://gizmodo.com/this-company-wants-to-pay-you-virtual-money-to-watch-po-1823702297

Sex Boosts Memory, New Study Finds

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sex9Here’s another reason to have more sex: it boosts memory, according to new research. Researchers analyzed two years of data on more than 6,000 adults aged 50 and over, and overwhelmingly found that those who have more sex were better at recalling recent events. “The researchers said this study, and previous studies in mice, suggest sex boosts memory by stimulating the growth of neurons in the hippocampus, a part of the brain that is activated when episodic and spatial memory tasks are performed,” reports Daily Mail.

The research establishing that sex enhances memory was first performed on mice, but this study is the first time it’s been confirmed with humans. Participants completed a memory test and a questionnaire where they reported how often they had sex, kissed, or sexually touched a partner. As with mice, humans who fucked on a regular basis fared much better when it came to recalling episodic memories.

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Check out more about the study that shows sex boosts memory: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5741327/Youll-better-memory-middle-age-healthy-sex-life-study-finds.html

Guys, Masturbating Is Really Good For You

screen-shot-2016-10-11-at-4-54-43-pm-2Good news, guys: we have even more reasons for you to keep jerking off! A new study shows masturbating can make you a better lover and boost your orgasms. On top of the proven health benefits such as better sleep, self-esteem, and stress relief, men who masturbate weekly are 10 percent more confident in their sexual performance, research from sex toy company Tenga found.

Tenga also found that 12 percent of men who indulge in self-love have a better quality orgasm. Researchers speculate that this is because regular masturbators take the time to explore their erogenous zones and preferred stimulation techniques, which leads to more self-aware, exciting and creative partnered sex. “By encouraging people to be more open with their emotions, and sexual preferences, Tenga hopes to elevate the conversation around masturbation to create more fun and beneficial sexual experience,” Tenga says.

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Check out more about why masturbating is good for men: https://nypost.com/2018/05/01/gentlemen-masturbating-is-really-good-for-you/

Is It Possible To Masturbate Too Much?

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“It’s a great way to take care of your body, to de-stress, and relax,” one sexpert at Babeland says. The blood flow during orgasms keeps the brain feeling happy, and a daily orgasm can actually help keep your sex organs engaged. This is especially true for women in terms of exercising their pelvic floor muscles, which can lead to stronger orgasms in the future. The only thing that can be dangerous is if you’re only masturbating in one way, and doing it often, which can train your brain to orgasm only when your body is stimulated in that one way—but as long as you change up your routine with different techniques or toys, you can rest assured you can never masturbate too much!

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Check out more about whether you can masturbate too much: https://www.refinery29.com/masturbate-too-much-myths-about-sex

German Man Gets Giant 9-Pound Dick With Penis Enlargements

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His dick is so big that he can no longer have normal erections or casual sex, since going to town on another man requires “some foreplay,” to put it mildly. “But there are other things you can do with it,” he explains. “You just have to free yourself from established roles and ideas about sex and be ready to play.” He says that he decided to enlarge his penis because he was intrigued by shaping and changing his body. It’s fair to say he’s exceeded his wish…and then some.

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Check out more about the man with the 9-pound dick: https://thegailygrind.com/2015/04/11/gay-german-dude-gets-giant-penis-enlargement-now-says-its-too-big-for-sex/