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America Has Two Of The World’s Kinkiest Cities

A new study ranked the kinkiest cities in the world and two American hotspots made the cut. Not surprisingly, Las Vegas and New York City are among the raciest destinations across the globe, sexperts say. London is rated the kinkiest city in The Bottle Club’s latest study where they ranked cities on a 40-point scale.

Las Vegas follows shortly behind London’s near-perfect score of 39 with a score of 38, while Berlin comes in third place with 33 points, and New York City is in the top four with a score of 29. In order to determine each city’s “kinky” score, they were ranked on the number of kinky people, sex events, and porn stars named after the city. London leads the way due to a whopping 131 sex events, 10,000 content creators on OnlyFans, and at least 30 porn stars named “London.”

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Check out more about the kinkiest cities in the world: https://nypost.com/2022/04/20/america-has-two-of-the-worlds-kinkiest-cities/

Man With 9 Wives Has ‘Sex Schedule’ To ‘Fulfill My Sexuality At Any Cost’

Fucking multiple partners is apparently a lot of work. A Brazilian model and polygamist who notoriously married nine women now claims he’s had to create a sex schedule to be sure each wife’s needs are met. “They all want to fulfill my sexuality at any cost,” he said.

The swinger’s wedding—to “protest against monogamy”—went viral, and now he’s struggling to satisfy all his partners equally. “Initially I tried to have sex by appointment,” he said of the juggling act, but needless to say, he found it difficult trying to “manage à trois.” Despite the complicated dynamics., he says “the sex is great”: “It is very fun, pleasurable and unique to experience everything collectively, and they are all very different in bed,” he gushed.

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Check out more about a swinger’s crazy sex schedule with his nine wives: https://nypost.com/2022/04/26/man-with-9-wives-has-sex-schedule-to-fulfill-my-sexuality-at-any-cost/

TikToker Puts Condom On Leg To Disprove Men’s Excuses For Not Wearing Them

A TikToker has hilariously put men’s lame excuses for not wearing condoms to bed (pun intended!). The TikTok shows a condom being extended over a foot and up to about knee-length, surrounded by mocking phrases like “I’m too big” and “It won’t fit.” The video currently has over 8.1 million views.

The TikToker later cited studies detailing exactly how wrong men claiming to be “too big” for condoms really are. Rather than condoms being too small, research has shown that condoms are often too big for wearers, which can lead to problems. “Fitting and comfortably fitting are two different things,” a user noted. “If they think it doesn’t fit, they’re probably buying the wrong size.”

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Check out more about a TikToker putting a condom on her leg to prove men aren’t “too big” to wear them: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/condom-fits-leg/

‘Fictosexuals’ Are Real People Who Only Get Turned On By Fictional Characters

A Japanese man who tied the knot with a computer-synthesized character is on a mission to educate people about fictosexuals. He married made-up pop singer Hatsune Miku and identifies as fictosexual, an umbrella term for anyone who only experiences sexual attraction to fictional characters. The man—a researcher of sexuality—told the New York Times there are thousands of fictosexual marriages in Japan: “for character lovers, this practice is seen as essential. It makes them feel alive, happy, useful and part of a movement with higher goals in life.”

Many fictosexuals identify under one of several subcategories: cartosexuals, for instance, are only attracted to cartoon or comic book characters, while gamosexuals are turned on by video game characters. Magisexuals prefer to create ideas in their head of what their fictional lover looks like. Fictosexuals even have their own flag—one person recently shared it on Twitter, writing, “Fictosexual and I’m proud of it. No reason to be ashamed of it.”

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Check out more about fictosexuality: https://nypost.com/article/what-is-fictosexuality-meaning-definition/

Sexpert Believes Orgasms Are The Secret To Looking Young

A 74-year-old sexpert believes great sex can happen at any age. What’s more, she advises all women to orgasm every day—and claims it’s the secret to looking and feeling younger. She wrote a book giving “hot tips” to women of all ages to help make satisfying sex a priority.

Women in their 20s should make a sexual bucket list from “watching porn to going to your first sex party to acting out sexual fantasies,” while career women in their 30s should explore tantric sex to build intimacy into their busy lives. Women in their 40s should stay in shape to encourage a healthy sexual appetite since those who work out have higher sex drives. Finally, 50s+ women should make adjustments to make sex work for their bodies: investing in good lubes, finding comfortable sex positions and the time of day you have the most energy to get it on.

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Check out more about a sexpert saying women should orgasm every day to stay looking and feeling young: https://nypost.com/2022/04/20/74-year-old-sexpert-believes-orgasms-are-the-secret-to-looking-young/

Ocean Sounds Can Make You Cum Better, Audio Erotica Expert Claims

The founder of an erotic audio company claims listening to the sound of crashing waves can help train the brain to have better orgasms. The businesswoman recently gave a TED talk explaining why sound is intrinsic to sexual pleasure. She said listening to less obviously erotic noises can expand a person’s imagination, and sexual horizons.

“It is not a betrayal to use your imagination to bring you more pleasure,” she said. “Fantasy is a safe space, and it’s time we bust the myth that what you fantasize about and what you want to happen in reality are always the same thing.” She explained sounds—not words—can often be a gateway to fantasy. The sound of waves crashing against the shore, for instance, can induce listeners into a state of relaxation, which in turn produces better orgasms.

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Check out more about how ocean sounds can make you cum better: https://nypost.com/2022/04/21/ocean-sounds-can-make-orgasms-better-audio-erotica-expert/

More Couples Are In Open Relationships Because They’re ‘Bored With Each Other’

It seems couples are rearing to get out after so much time in lockdown—of their monogamous relationships. Romantic burnout caused by spending too much time together during the pandemic has caused lovers to seek out more exciting prospects. A sex therapist reported a 45 percent leap in inquiries about discussing the subject with partners in recent months.

She said: “Couples are now keener than ever to spice things up a bit. Many have started to outsource their needs in the shape of open relationships.” While men are usually the ones who suggest more sexual freedom, it is women who want it to continue. “Women are now much more in charge and much more demanding,” which according to the sex therapist, is why we’re seeing more open relationships these days.

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Check out more about couples seeking open relationships because they’re bored with each other: https://nypost.com/2022/04/13/more-couples-enjoying-open-relationships-because-theyre-bored-with-each-other/

Yoga Teacher Can Reach ‘Deep’ Orgasm With No Stimulation Thanks To Her Practice

An Estonian yoga teacher has learned how to orgasm “almost instantly” without any stimulation. The woman taught herself over the course of a decade how to achieve “deep sexual satisfaction” after traditional sex proved unsatisfying. Now, she claims she can orgasm for up to 10 minutes without stimulation due to “years of yoga and tantric training.”

“I learned to relax and let go, accepted body image and brought increased mindfulness also to daily life in general,” she told researchers in a study published in the journal Sexual Medicine. “In addition, I did pelvic floor exercises, breast massage practice and practices to release shame and guilt.” Researchers found that the orgasms she taught herself were nearly as pleasurable as her clitoral or anal ones—and she claims, “What I just did, I know every woman can do it.”

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Check out more about a woman teaching herself to orgasm without stimulation: https://nypost.com/2022/04/05/i-can-reach-deep-orgasm-with-no-stimulation-thanks-to-yoga/

British TV Show Tests How Ready Couples Are To Being In Open Relationship

A TV show in the UK is trying an astonishing sexual experiment that aims to introduce ordinary couples to the world of non-monogamous relationships. The series, called Open House: The Great Sex Experiment, tests how “ready” couples are to try an open relationship. Participants are given a series of escalating tasks, each pushing them slightly further than the last towards actually having sex with someone other than their partner.

According to the programmers, the show is an examination of an “increasingly popular lifestyle choice.” Producers of the show purposely selected total novices to non-monogamy—people who are “happily married” and have satisfying sex lives. Dr Lori—a psychologist who helps couples to achieve “a deeper level of sexual congruence”—assigns the couples tasks, ranging from flirting to playing “innocent” party games, right up to having a threesome while the cameras roll.

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Check out more about the British TV show, The Great Sex Experiment: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10669099/TV-experiment-proves-women-men-think-differently-sex-fidelity.html

Married Men Reveal Why They Cheat In New Book

The author of Cheatingland: The Secret Confessions of Men Who Stray interviewed 61 men over four years to get new insights into infidelity. The author says, “‘Cheatingland’ was a clandestine little country with its own customs—sort of Fantasy Island, where wedding vows were forgotten and normally mild-mannered people could morph into sexual beasts.” To some, “cheating means taking their sexual frustration into their own hands and resolving the problem so that they won’t poison the marriage with their dissatisfaction or resentment,” the author writes.

But in many cases, it has nothing to do with problems in the bedroom: “I just needed to do something I wanted to do, something for myself, and that is to give myself the gift of amazing, heart-pounding sex,” said one man. There is a “Russian roulette aspect to all of it,” writes the author, in that the risk of getting caught is always there—and for some, that’s part of the appeal. “The sex is absurd,” another man says. “It’s risk-your-life good.”

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Check out more about a book exploring why men cheat on their wives: https://nypost.com/2022/03/16/61-married-men-reveal-why-they-cheat-heart-pounding-sex/