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Man Without a Dick Has Slept With Over 100 Women

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_zombieDespite Andrew Wardle’s extremely rare defect of being born with no penis, he’s still managed to get over 100 women into the sack! His condition is called penile agenesis, and it only occurs once in about every 6 million births. The 40 year old lives in the UK and has finally decided to speak out about his unfortunate situation on an upcoming TLC documentary that follows him throughout a year of his life.

Even though he’s slept with a lot of women over the years, he’s only told about 20% of them that he has no cock. He says that while some women have been okay with it, one woman punched him right in the face when she found out the truth about his dick! The documentary will include an amazing four surgery procedure that will (hopefully) give him a fully functioning penis, and will also feature a confession to his family, friends, and longtime girlfriend who, somehow, has no idea that he has no cock. It’s not yet been revealed how he’s been able to keep his secret for so long, but if we had to guess it probably involves an amazingly realistic and sturdy strap-on!

Wow. This man makes us incredibly grateful for cocks. Well, I guess we sort of already were! Come celebrate the miracle of the dick with us!

Check out a trailer for the TLC documentary here!

Gay Bob Was the World’s First Gay (and Anatomically Correct) Doll

16342313980_b24b252790_zNearly 40 years ago, Gay Bob came out of the toy manufacturer closet as the world’s first gay doll. Gay Bob wasn’t a joke, even though releasing such a doll in earnest during the late ’70s was definitely controversial—especially considering Bob’s perfect, anatomically correct plastic cock! Gay Bob was created by inventor Harvey Rosenberg as a way for gay men to feel more empowered about their sexuality during a time when it was taboo to identify as gay, let alone be open about it.

Gay Bob came on the scene complete with a plastic earring, fashionable man-purse, a closet for him to come out of, figuratively and literally, and a huge plastic cock. Described as “a cross between Paul Newman and Robert Redford,” he also had a manifesto explaining why he came with a closet: “…Gay people are no different than straight people… if everyone came “out of their closets” there wouldn’t be so many angry, frustrated, frightened people…” Not only that, but Gay Bob also came with cheeky packaging that explained to consumers how they could “play with [him].” Basically, since he’s so “well-built,” your boss, your folks, and your friends will all love him!

In the mood to play with us? We are all about empowering sexuality here!

Check out images of Gay Bob here!

Animal Rescuer By Day, Dominatrix By Night

Depositphotos_dominatrix_smallLorraine White, aka Princess Lucina, gets to incorporate dog collars into both of her lines of work: animal rescuer and dominatrix. By day, she works with animals, and by night she gets paid $300 an hour to whip her clients into submission in her dungeon. So what’s it like for her to carry on a (kinky) double life? White has only recently opened up about her alter ego as Princess Lucina when she needed to apply for permission from the city to keep her dungeon up and running.

And now that she’s gone public as a dominatrix, she’s enjoying the excitement of keeping up two very different roles: “As a dominatrix, I’m very stern. I wear rubber dresses and brandish various instruments of torture…But when I help with the dogs, I’m…giving them plenty of hugs.” In her dungeon, she has all types of torture instruments, but says that most people like “middle of the road stuff like boot worship, tied and teased, little bit of pain, a little bit of nipple torture, spanking, smoking fetishes, a bit of cross-dressing, hoods, gags, losing control, bondage.” She likes balancing the roughness and power of being a dominatrix with taking care of and nurturing animals: “It mixes my passion for animal rescue with the sensual and sadistic side of BDSM.”

Interested in trying out a kinky double life yourself? Just bring your safe word and we’ll do the rest!

Check out more about Princess Lucina here: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/dominatrix-second-job-animal-rescue-5552272

Whipped and Bound For a Living: Life as a Professional Submissive

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Subby Katie recently sat down with Vice to discuss what her day to day life is like getting tied up and flogged by strangers for a living as a professional submissive. Interestingly, even though more than three quarters of women who are into BDSM enjoy submission, there aren’t nearly as many professional submissives as there are dominatrixes. She says the key to success as a pro sub is to love what you’re doing.

Her sessions usually entail caning, bare-handed spanking, role-play (the classic secretary or school girl scenario), controlled orgasms (not allowing the sub to cum without the dom’s permission), and forced orgasms (she says this involves making her cum over and over, which becomes very intense—it was the only time she ever used her safe word!). Her clients are usually CEO types, but she’s encountered all types of kinksters, including one dude who wanted to put clothespins on her body and count the number of pins he could clamp on her skin! As a pro sub, she wants people to understand that women who are into submission are not weak or victims: they simply enjoy the submission side of BDSM, which in no way promotes violence against women.

Want to have a little BDSM fun with us? We also love what we do!

Check out more about Subby Katie on Vice.

5 Rules For Mistresses

If you enter into a hot affair, it’s important to have some ground rules in place before deciding to become a mistress. And if you do decide to become “the other woman,” i.e., a sidepiece or mistress, it’s vital that you understand the terms of the deal. So here are the 5 rules you have to know before getting down to business as a mistress:
  1. If you’re the mistress, you may not be the only mistress
    Obviously, becoming the other woman doesn’t mean that you will be the only woman.
  2. Enjoy the stolen moments
    When engaging in a steamy affair as a mistress, it’s not necessary to focus on anything else other than having a sexy good time in the moment. Savor it, and don’t worry about what happens when you’re not together.
  3. Be comfortable with your role as the mistress—the main woman is not relevant
    There’s no reason to compare yourself to the wife or the main woman: if you’re the mistress, focus on enjoying yourself and having fun.
  4. Keep it positive
    When engaging in a “situationship,” keeping things positive, fun, and light is the only way to go. Remember that an affair is not a serious relationship—this is the joy of being the mistress, not the wife.
  5. Don’t get emotionally attached
    Being a mistress means being a sidepiece, and there’s no guarantee that will change. If you’re looking for something serious, steer clear of an affair.

Dominatrix Says Brain Injury is Behind Her Intense Sex Drive

Vancouver dominatrix Sasha Mizaree says a brain injury resulting from a car accident is the reason for her overactive sex drive and chosen profession in the BDSM community. And recently, mistress Mizaree was awarded $1.5 million in a lawsuit for her brain injury. Allegedly, her impulse to have sex after the accident became so severe that she no longer felt she had control over it. She explains that because of her brain injury, she couldn’t stop thinking about sex, all day every day.
Her intense sexual desire led her to become a stripper, and eventually a dominatrix. She even built a dungeon in her basement. Mistress Mizaree says that before the accident, she had an average libido, so she’s now taking measures to get a handle on her voracious appetite for sex. We bet that becoming a dominatrix has also helped her to feel more in control and empowered sexually!
Have a strong desire for something naughty? No need to exercise control with us!
Check out more about dominatrix Mizaree on 20/20’s “My Strange Affliction”: https://abcnews.go.com/Health/women-dominatrix-brain-trauma-gave-intense-sexual-desires/story?id=29595458

How to (Safely) Fuck in the Shower

showerIf you’ve ever gotten wet and wild in the shower, you know how hot shower sex can be. Getting sudsy and clean while getting down and dirty is definitely a great way to add some fun to your sex life.
But if you and your partner are different heights, or if you’re worried about slipping and falling or getting soap in unfortunate places, we’ve got some tips to make getting frisky in the shower go more smoothly.
  1. Sportsheets help with slipperiness
    Sportsheets has a line of shower sex products that will help with the slipperiness, like single or dual suction locking handles or foot rests for leverage. They even have suction handcuffs for a little BDSM action!
  2. Don’t use condoms
    Condoms aren’t meant for shower sex. They can slip off and degrade in the water.
  3. Definitely use lube
    Even though you’re in the water, counter-intuitively water does not keep things nice and wet! This is because it actually dries up the pussy’s natural wetness. So use a silicon-based lube, which can sustain contact with water for long periods of time.
  4. Fuck standing up
    The best way to safely fuck in the shower is to do it facing one another, with the shorter person propping their leg up (again, a foot suction cup helps here). Try not to use your partner for leverage, which can lead to slipping; instead, use the wall for support.
  5. Shower head is the best head
    If penetrative sex is just too slippery and difficult, try some head! A cushy shower mat is great for blowjobs. Also try pushing your lady against the wall and fingering her from behind, or using water-proof sex toys. And of course, anal play is great in the shower for getting all squeaky clean before getting dirty.
In the mood for getting wet and wild with us? We are always down for an exciting adventure!

The Ultimate Cougar Fetish

If Harold and Maude was about a young guy with a serious fetish for much, much older women, then it would be a lot like Kyle and Majorie’s relationship. Kyle is a young man who has what one might call a cougar fetish—if one defines “cougar” as a woman old enough to be his grandmother! His girlfriend, Majorie, is—wait for it—91 years old! And their relationship is pretty much entirely about having hot sex. Now that’s a real cougar!

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sexy_cougarShe’s three times his age, is a great grandmother, and finds her streamy affair with a much younger, much kinkier partner thrilling, especially at her age. Kyle has a fetish for untraditional sex with much older women, and is especially turned on by his mature girlfriends’ wrinkles, platinum hair, and naturally hanging neck skin. He says that he offers older women a more adventurous, fun type of experience than they’re used to. And for Majorie, having hot sex with a young fetishist makes her feel alive again: “The physical side of the relationship is wonderful. I amaze myself and he amazes me, and I like it,” she says.

We hope we’re having such hot sex at that age! Want to have a steamy affair with us? We’re always up for an adventurous, fun experience!

 

 

The Pros of Phone Sex

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Maybe we’re a little biased, but with all the benefits of phone sex, we thought we’d take a minute to point some of them out. While it’s true that phone sex can’t replace the pleasure of touching, licking, sucking—we could go on—it can be a hot, fun way to add some spice to your sex life. Talking dirty during phone sex lets you get intimate (while getting off!) with someone without having to be in the room with them, not to mention the erotic thrill of whispering your fantasies to another person! So here we’ve put together 6 phone sex pros:

  1. The aural stimulation during phone sex can be very titillating
    The sensual excitement of listening to someone moaning, breathing heavily, and gasping as they pleasure themselves during phone sex is undeniably hot!
  2. Phone sex lets you explore your fantasies
    For many people, it’s easier to explore their fantasies during phone sex than it would be in person.
  3. Phone sex adds another layer of eroticism
    Talking dirty during phone sex lets you describe your desires in full, graphic detail. It can be a way to get to know your sexuality (and someone else’s) on a deeper level than maybe you thought possible.
  4. Phone sex is (hot) guided masturbation
    Giving your phone sex partner a play-by-play of what you’re doing to yourself and to them is a really sexy way of fucking while paying close attention to each naughty and amazing part of it.
  5. After you cum, you can go to sleep
    Let’s face it, phone sex is great for those times when you’d really just prefer to roll over and go to sleep after fucking.
  6. Phone sex means no awkwardness afterward
    Phone sex means no awkward goodbyes, promises to call later, etc. You just hang up.

Want to have some fun on the phone with us? We definitely know a thing or two about the pros of phone sex!

 

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Inside the Wet and Messy World of Food Fetishists

Wet and Messy (WAM) is a type of sploshing fetish that involves really playing with your food. If incorporating cake batter, whipped cream, pudding or other goopey food items into your sex life sounds like a sloppy good time, then WAM might just be the fetish for you. Liquid food fetishists not only enjoy getting messy and naughty with food, but with any other wet concoction that they can smear or rub all over their bodies, including things like mud or slime. best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sploshing

People in the food fetish community go way beyond just incorporating some whipped cream and chocolate sauce into foreplay. One couple makes x-rated food fetish videos where Mary, aka “Mud Bunny,” sits on multi-colored cake batter, or gets doused in buckets of cream and custard. Her partner, Tyler, says: “I really enjoy seeing it dripping on a girl, pouring it over her body. It’s a very sexy look, very smooth, the textures are awesome, and they taste good. It stimulates all the senses, which is really interesting from a sexual point of view.” Interestingly, there’s also a BDSM aspect to food fetish play—there’s humiliation, as well as dominance/submission.

Want to have some messy fun with us? We love getting wet and wild!

 

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