This Woman Stirred Up Controversy For Admitting She Has Sex While Breastfeeding

Tasha Maile, aka The Spiritual Tasha Mama, is internet-famous for her frank and uncensored breastfeeding videos online. But one of her videos, “Do I Have Sex While Breastfeeding?” has sparked an ongoing backlash because in it she admits to having sex while breastfeeding. In the video Maile says, “I remember the baby sleeping on me, best_phone_sex_niteflirt_brasbreastfeeding, and my ex-husband and I would have sex from behind. There’s nothing bad about making love, at all, ever.”

While the breastfeeding advocate insists women should “enjoy it. Enjoy yourself. Enjoy your fantasies,” many have spoken out about her comments. Breastfeeding fetish or no, many people consider having sex while breastfeeding just too weird. On the other hand, some parents can relate: “If being latched on is the only way the baby will sleep then when else do they get time to be a couple and have a little intimacy?”

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Check out more about the woman who has sex while breastfeeding: https://www.buzzfeed.com/mikespohr/this-mom-had-sex-while-breastfeeding-and-people-have

7 Steamy, Real Fantasies

iStock_cuckold_Double_smallWe’d be willing to bet that everyone has a kinky side—especially when it comes to their fantasies. After all, the brain is the most erotic part of the human body. Here are 7 steamy fantasies from real folks willing to share their naughty side.

  1. To get railed by my married college professor after class one day. I wanna get picked up and THROWN on his desk (or bent over it). I want papers and pencils to go flying everywhere, all my clothes ripped off.” Hot for teacher!
  2. “Someone walks in while I’m blowing a guy sitting behind his desk, and he’s stuck just trying to talk normally while hoping that person doesn’t realize he’s getting his dick sucked.” Kinky secretary!
  3. “To have a girl eat me out while my boyfriend fucks her. They are in doggy-style while I am on my back watching.” Three’s company!
  4. “I want to have sex in a two-way mirror box in a busy public place, so that me and my partner can see outwards, but everybody else just sees a mirrored box.” Ooh, naughty!
  5. I want to be on all fours while my mate ‘inspects’ me. Spreading, poking, investigating every crevasse of my body. Inserting things, vibrating when I’m not expecting it.” Sounds like quite the titillating surprise!
  6. I’m touching her with my fingers in her vagina, and she keeps telling me she wants me deeper in her, and when I get four fingers in I find a spot that makes her feel really good and she is moaning and really into it.” Hot!
  7. serving a few girls at a party — being the server, wearing only the apron and nothing else, doing whatever the girls tell me to do. Eventually, I’m doing the housework naked and entertaining the girls.” Sounds like every woman’s fantasy!

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Check out more hot sexual fantasies: https://www.refinery29.com/sexual-fantasies#slide-29

Anal Beads Will Make Your Orgasms Better and Stronger

As anyone who’s ever tried anal beads can attest, they really work when it comes to cumming! The beads act like a massage inside your body, but the magic really happens when you pull them out before or during orgasm. Here are some tips to get started on your anal beads journey.

  1. Start gradually
    When starting out, choose one with a slight pearlsgradual increase of beads. “As the beads start to get larger up the length of the strand, you are allowing yourself to get used to the toy,” explains a sexpert.
  2. Use thick anal lube
    Lube is a must during anal play, but using anal lube specifically will be even better. The thickness of anal lube sticks to the toy better, so you don’t have to apply as often.
  3. Make sure there’s a loop or a handle
    Just like with butt plugs, you want to make sure the toy can be easily removed.
  4. Relax and communicate!
    If you’re nervous, you can always start out teasing the area with a vibrator to get warmed up. You want to be as relaxed as possible before insertion, so be sure to communicate how you’re feeling.
  5. Get an anti-bacterial cleaner
    In order to use your anal beads repeatedly, you’ll want to clean your beads between use with this.
  6. Try a kit
    If you’re not sure what you’ll like—something thicker, sturdier, etc—purchase an anal bead kit and experiment!

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Check out more about the wonders of anal beads: https://www.refinery29.com/best-anal-beads-to-use-butt-play#slide-9

7 Types of Sex Every Bottom Has Had

If bottoms had a penny for every time they experienced one of these sexual scenarios, they’d be rich. From the awkward moment a bottom realizes he’s taken home another bottom to taking a dangerously big dick in the butt, we guarantee bottoms everywhere will relate to these types of sex. Here are the most notorious (check out the full list below).bieber

  1. The “Two Bottoms Don’t Make a Top” Sex
    That moment when you realize you’re about to fuck another bottom—and someone’s got to take the top. Whoops!
  2. The “Going In Dry Will Make Me Cry” Sex
    Every bottom knows the horrors of underestimating how important lube is. As BuzzFeed says, “You could be looser than a wizard’s sleeve, but every bottom needs something to help drive that D home.” Preach!
  3. The “Giant Dick In My Ass” Sex
    The big dick is a thing of beauty—in theory. In practice, it can feel like your insides are being rearranged!
  4. The “We Are Gathered Here Today For No Fucking Reason” Sex
    “You saw him in the bar and wanted to take that dick home and set up a rodeo. Everything’s going great until… the top flops because he’s had a drink.” Wah wah wah.
  5. The “Do You Actually Know What You’re Doing” Sex
    A bottom’s worst nightmare: his rimming gave you a beard rash and then he starts jackhammering away like your butt’s a punching bag!
  6. The “I Don’t Think We’re Done Yet You Bastard” Sex
    This is when a top finishes himself and then rolls over like he’s off duty. Not so fast—get that dick back here!
  7. The “I Didn’t Have Leg Day Planned Until Friday” Sex
    “You got it given to you good and your back is well and truly blown out. Then you stand up and suddenly you’re Ariel taking her first steps with new legs.” Somebody get that bottom a wheelchair!

Want to have a truly memorable experience? You’ll be walking funny for days after we’re done with you!

Check out more types of sex every bottom has had: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/going-in-dry-will-make-me-cry

8 Funny Tweets That Prove Human Sexuality Is Weird

Some people on Twitter don’t hold anything on back—especially when it concerns sex. Whether they’re keeping it real, waxing poetic, or just being silly, these hilarious tweets prove that there’s nothing humans haven’t thought about when it comes to sex. Here are 8 funny tweets that will make you feel better about the weird thoughts you’ve had about sex.jean_koulev

  1. Ryan Reynolds looks kind of orange and suddenly I’m wondering if I’m attracted to Oompa Loompas & citrus bc I’m still down #GoldenGlobes”
    If only Oompa Loompas looked like Ryan Reynolds…it could be a new fetish!
  2. This sensual video of Cole Sprouse eating a hamburger will make you feel some type of way.”
    This proves guys are turned on by everything!
  3. If I were a lobster, the rubber bands would turn me on, to be honest.”
    Lobsters and bondage—makes sense to us!
  4. I get turned on by people who make Star Wars references. I’m C3PO-sexual.”
    The force for horniness is strong with this one!
  5. Cosmopolitan tweets: ‘My husband loves leaving fruit in my vagina all day so he can eat it later.’
    Twitter response: Oh. We just use a bowl in the kitchen.”
    Delicious!
  6. Hi I’m Katie, my turn-ons include smoking, scrunchies, science & S-E-X. Don’t like rude men, very loud trucks, murder or crowded libraries.”
    The lady knows what she likes!
  7. Graduate from college and all of a sudden you’re turned on by stainless steel appliances and sales on organic food at Trader Joe’s”
    Yup. Sounds about right.
  8. WOMAN: guys suck
    GUY: ugh I know right? guys are the worst. except me haha. i am good and nice. can you send me pics of ur feet?”

    It’s funny cause it’s true!

Want to get weird and wild? We never hold anything back here!

Check out more hilarious tweets about sex: https://www.buzzfeed.com/mikespohr/theres-a-place-called-glory-hole-donuts-and-you-will-want

These Positions Will Make Anal Sex Totally Hot

When you watch anal sex in mainstream porn, it usually involves the receiving partner bent over, enjoying being vigorously jackhammered by a giant cock. In real life, while doggy style anal is definitely awesome, there are many other sex positions that are equally as A shunga print. Photograph: Geoffrey Clements/Corbispleasurable. So grab your lube and brace yourself for the best anal sex positions.

  1. Missionary Anal
    With this position, missionary is anything but vanilla. Add a pillow under the bottom’s hips to help find that perfect spot.
  2. Anal Cowgirl/Cowboy
    This one’s great for anal sex beginners because it’s one of the most comfortable. It allows you to be in control of both the depth and speed of penetration. An added bonus for people with pussies: you can rub your clit while being anally penetrated, which can lead to some serious orgasms.
  3. Blossoming Anal
    Detailed in the Kama Sutra, blossoming anal is when “the receiving partner lowers their head and raises their pelvis, while the penetrative partner places their hands around their lover’s hips.” It is a deeply intimate position that works best by lifting the pelvis while maintaining eye gaze.
  4. Shower Anal
    Here, you stand up and fuck from behind—while in the shower. It might be useful to have the bottom bend over at first and place their hands on the shower wall for support, while the top adjusts their hips to find a comfortable angle of insertion.

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Check out more of the best anal sex positions: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/04/149093/best-anal-sex-positions#slide-6

Preferring Porn Over Real Sex Is Now a Sexual Orientation

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_phonesexMedical Daily now has a term to describe those who prefer porn over sex: Pornosexual. Pornsexuality “differs from other sexual orientations because it’s a learned behavior that is void of human-to-human attachment bonding and connection.” Health professionals say that it’s a result of overstimulation in the brain from excessive porn watching, which provides instant gratification and stress relief.

According to research published in JAMA Psychiatry, researchers found that watching porn leads to dopamine levels rising significantly, which is why it can lead to addiction. Porn addicts crave this feeling, and begin to conflate sexual pleasure with porn. Therapists say the key to a healthy relationship with porn is for viewers to still use their imagination to create their own fantasies, ensuring they don’t become reliant and are able to build happy and healthy relationships with other people.

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Check out more about pornsexuality: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/porn-over-sex-pornosexual/

A Complete Dictionary Of The Most Bizarre Sex Slang

cosmic_banditaHave you ever been asked to “swing the dolphin?” If so, you’ve been introduced to the delightful and strange world of sex slang! There’s even a dictionary which has over 130,000 collected words and phrases that people have used over the centuries to mean dick, pussy, ass, and sex. Here are some of the weirdest ones (check out more below).

  1. A bit of summer cabbage (circa 1895)
    “Summer cabbage” means to have sex. “Cabbage” itself is used in slang to mean pussy, as has the “cauliflower,” the “mushroom,” and the “artichoke.”
  2. Dry mouthed widow (c. 1942)
    The dry mouthed widow is the dry hand that substitutes for the wet pussy. There’s a lot of terms of this sort, like “Rosie Palm and her Five Daughters” and “Mrs Palm and her Five Daughters.”
  3. Engage in three to one and bound to lose (c. 1793)
    The “three” represents the dick and the two testicles, the “one” is the pussy, and the “loss” is of semen when you cum.
  4. Flock of geese flying out of one’s backside (c. 1959)
    This is a fine Australian phrase that is an attempt to represent orgasm. Strange!
  5. Like a herd of turtles (c. 1940s)
    This is an Australian term for a sex positive woman! It’s used for a woman who has sex enthusiastically. This is from the late 1940s: “You ought to take her out to the toolies [tool shed], she’ll go like a herd of turtles!”
  6. Watergate (c. 1560)
    This is a term for a wet pussy. As Broadly explains, “Watergates were something you had in irrigation systems, and the gate is a word for vagina. It’s 1560, which is pretty much almost as far back as slang has been collected.”

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Check out more sex slang here: https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/complete-dictionary-bizarre-sex-slang

Surprising Facts About How Women Watch Porn

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_girls_eatingHere’s something a lot of people don’t know: women watch porn! YouPorn recently released some data about how women, one quarter of YouPorn’s audience, watch porn, and the results might surprise you. To start, the three most viewed porn categories by women are Lesbian, Romantic, and Threesome.

In comparison to men, women are more likely to search for “hardcore pussy licking” (630%), “lesbian scissor” (570%), and “lesbian threesome” (351%). YouPorn also found that 56% of women have apparently imagined themselves appearing in a porn video, and 28% of the women choose videos with a dominating female character—naughty! For women in relationships, 89% prefer to watch porn alone, but 69% (wink wink) wouldn’t mind if their partner found them watching it!

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Check out more data about how women watch porn: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/this-is-how-women-actually-feel-about-watching-porn

The Hottest Movie Sex Scenes, Ever

netflixandchillThe next time you’re looking to Netflix and Chill, look no further than these streamy movies. They offer much in the way of sexual inspiration—and they’re also just really entertaining. Here are the hottest movie sex scenes ever shown on the big screen (check out the full list below).

  1. Wild Things
    Two sexy lesbians getting it on in a pool? A legendary sex scene is born.
  2. The Brown Bunny
    This film is infamous for featuring unsimulated oral sex between Chloe Sevigny and Vincent Gallo. But its under-the-table blowjob scene is pretty incredible, too.
  3. Shame
    This film offers excessive sex scenes—think Michael Fassbender fucking his way through New York in a variety of creative pairings!
  4. Fear
    Who can ever forget Reese Witherspoon getting fingered on a roller coaster as a 90s remake of “Wild Horses” plays?
  5. Risky Business
    As Refinery 29 says, “If you could not follow Rebecca De Mornay and Tom Cruise’s lead on the G train during rush hour, that’d be great.”
  6. The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo
    This heroine is very into dominating. Let’s hear it for girls on top!
  7. Nina Takes a Lover
    We’ve got two words for you: ladder sex.
  8. Revolutionary Road
    Kitchen counter sex is the best sex!
  9. Marie Antoinette
    Let’s just say Marie Antoinette had a rich and full sex life. Let her eat cake!
  10. The Hunger
    Susan Sarandon having sex with Catherine Deneuve? Yes please!

Looking for something steamy? Come find sexual inspiration right here!

Check out more of the best sex scenes ever: https://www.refinery29.com/2013/09/53441/movie-sex-scenes#slide-49