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Porn Stars Reveal What They’d Do For Work If They Didn’t Do Porn

5363515948_0afee4be51_zThe average porn career lasts between 6 and 18 months, so it makes sense for adult entertainers to consider what they’d be doing if they weren’t doing each other! In a new video by Wood Rocket, adult film performers reveal what they’d do for a living—if they weren’t getting paid to fuck on camera. And while some of the professions are shockingly normal (nanny or librarian), others are just shocking (watch the video below)!

Charlotte Cross takes a practical approach to the inevitability of a career change one day: “Porn is very temporary,” she explains. “Eventually, everybody’s gonna get tired of seeing loads blown on my face!” Jeze Belle would probably be doing something kind of morbid, like working in a funeral home—except, you know, as a “sexy mortician.” Another actress wanted to use her skills as a porn star to help others learn about getting off as a “sex educator.” Nursing is also a very “hands-on” career…sort of like porn? Amber Ivy was working in a lab before she began working in porn, but decided to “take dicks for a living instead.” And regardless of vocation, one thing’s for sure: “I would still be having a lot of sex.”

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Check out what porn stars would be doing for work if they didn’t do porn here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/porn-stars-reveal-what-theyd-do-for-work-if-they-didnt-do-porn_us_575954c7e4b00f97fba75158

George W. Bush Wants Everyone To Know That’s Not Him in Kayne West’s ‘Famous’ Orgy

kanyeIt seems not everyone is pleased about Kayne West’s new video “Famous,” which features several celebrities lying naked in bed together (and we’re not talking about Taylor Swift). The 43rd President of the United States immediately issued a statement following his “appearance” in the rapper’s orgy. Apparently, George “Dubya” feels West “misunderestimated” him.

“In case there was any doubt… that is not President Bush,” a POTUS rep told TMZ. “He is in much better shape.” The post-coital celebrities featured in the video—probably wax figures in the uncannily realistic style of Madame Tussaud’s—are from left to right: George W. Bush, Anna Wintour, Donald Trump, Rihanna, Chris Brown, Taylor Swift, Kanye West, Kim Kardashian, Ray J, Amber Rose, Caitlyn Jenner, and Bill Cosby. Since the women are all topless or fully nude, and the men are covered in all the right places, perhaps Dubya needs to relax a bit. We heard painting is a very calming activity—or an orgy!

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Check out more about George W. Bush issuing a statement after being featured in Kayne West’s orgy: https://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/06/25/george-w-bush-on-kanye-west-s-nsfw-famous-orgy-that-s-not-me.html

What People Say On Dates Vs What They Actually Mean

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_questionHave you ever spent hours/days/weeks agonizing over what your date really meant when they said, “I’d love to see you again” when you never heard from them again? Well, let us help you demystify the infinitely confusing dating game. Here are more things people on dates say vs. what they actually mean (check out Buzzfeed’s illustrated list below).

  1. What they say: “You have beautiful eyes.” What they mean: “I want to have sex with you.” Good to know!
  2. What they say: “I’m not seeing anyone at the moment.” What they mean: “I’m seeing about five people on Tinder.” It’s not technically a lie.
  3. What they say: “I’ve just got out of a long-term relationship” What they mean: “I’m only looking for a no-strings fuck.” Well, why didn’t you say so? This is not necessarily a bad thing!
  4. What they say: “I’m not looking for anything serious right now” What they mean: “I don’t fancy you but I might sleep with you depending on how drunk I get tonight.” Buy you a shot?
  5. What they say: “It’s been really nice meeting you.” What they mean: “We have nothing in common and I never want to see you again.” Well that’s confusing!
  6. What they say: “That’s so interesting.” What they mean: “SOZ, I zoned out. Wut?” Time for shots!

Looking for some straight-forward, simple good times? We are all about keeping it real (fun) here!

Check out more of what people say on dates vs. what they actually mean here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/beckybarnicoat/what-people-say-on-dates-vs-what-they-mean?utm_term=.gvGrpLBMlE#.mma5OBKnxW

Gay Porn Studio Makes Controversial Decision to Add Trans and Bio-Female Porn Starss

Notorious gay porn studio, Treasure Island Media, has shocked more people with their new gangbang porn flick than with all their raunchy, bareback porn flicks combined—because they’ve given a woman and a trans woman starring roles. By crossing the gay porn gender taboo with their upcoming release Fuck Holes 3, they’ve stirred up quite a bit of controversy among loyal fans. Like the other popular Fuck Holes films, the adult entertainers are all male, except two scenes including SF Weekly’s Whore Next Door and cis-female Siouxsie Q James and trans woman Sami Price.

“Would this be boundary-pushing? Or is this just flat-out, gag-me gross for the majority of Treasure Island’s fan base?,” asked one angry dude on the gay blog The Sword. The film’s director Max Sohl responded by saying, “I have never had a movie this discussed based on the trailer alone. Some of the comments are surprising given that they haven’t seen what they are commenting on and really are judging based solely on the ‘idea’ of the casting.” Porn star Siouxsie Q James also commented, saying that as a queer person herself, she understands the frustration of straight sex dominating queer spaces, but that she is also “so honored that this historically gay director wanted to cast me in this genre-busting film,” she continued. “Yes, there are women in this film, it is still shot by a gay director for a gay production company. The focus is on the dudes.” We say to those pissed off gay dudes, if you don’t like one “fuck hole,” just fast forward till you get to a different “fuck hole!”

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Check out more about the gay porn studio adding a woman and a trans woman here: https://sfist.com/2015/07/30/gay_porn_studio_adds_female_and_tra.php

Exercising Can Cause a Spontaneous Orgasm

It’s well known that women can orgasm while exercising (remember that porn star who climaxed every time she did hanging leg raises?). The phenomenon has been dubbed “coregasms” since doing core exercises seem to be what brings on these spontaneous orgasms, not arousal or genital stimulation. And now, sex professor Debby Herbenick, Ph.D. has confirmed in her new book The Coregasm Workout: The Revolutionary Method for Better Sex through Exercise that men can also have spontaneous orgasms from exercise!

“Through her research, she found that 10 percent of women and men have climaxed from exercising,” reports Men’s Health. “The guys in her studies reported getting off while doing sit-ups and pull-ups, lifting weights, climbing ropes, and running.” These types of exercises stimulate the abdominal muscles, which may activate internal nerve pathways that trigger an orgasm. Strange as it seems, many men who have reported spontaneous orgasms did not even have an erection! They described the experience as more intense than climaxing while masturbating, but not as satisfying as cumming with a partner. Time to hit the gym, guys and gals!

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Check out more about coregasms here: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/men-can-have-coregasms

Meet the Woman Who Quit Her Job to Breastfeed a Grown Man

Jennifer Mulford wanted to breastfeed—but not a baby! She’s into a fetish known as ABR, or adult breastfeeding relationship. And the fetish is more common than you’d think—there are many women on Craigslist and social media sites like Reddit looking for a companion to share that most intimate bond with.

Mulford and her boyfriend recently discussed their breastfeeding relationship in an interview in the New York Post. She explained that she needed to take time off of work to supply him with the milk he “needs,” since it takes a lot of time and effort to “dry feed” and breast pump. Mulford said, “When I read about the bond breastfeeding could create between two people, I was envious…I have always enjoyed my breasts being touched during sex more than anything else, so I knew I would enjoy it.” The couple enjoy the “emotional bond” breastfeeding brings them, and are committed to pumping and dry feeding nearly every two hours, just as if they were feeding a baby. Mama knows?

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Check out more about the woman who quit her job to breastfeed a grown man here: https://distractify.com/sex-relationships/2016/06/07/woman-breastfeeds-her-boyfriend

The U.S. Bible Belt Loves ‘Big Black Dick,’ According to Pornhub

BBCIn a recent analysis of Pornhub’s gay male content, statistics show America’s Bible Belt sure does love its black gay porn. “The analysis focused on the 3% of U.S. visitors who go directly to the gay male section of the site, and excluded the large number of lesbian videos viewed on Pornhub,” reports Gaily Grind. They broke down the analysis by each state, and the results were pretty surprising.

Southern states like Florida, Mississippi, and Louisiana made up the places that watch the most gay porn, just behind New York and the District of Columbia. These Bible Belt states also watched the most black gay porn, including categories like “big black dick” and “black daddy.” Interestingly, the word “black” is the most widely searched for term under the gay porn category. Pornhub also looked at the top 20 gay categories across the U.S., and found that after “black,” the most popular categories were “Straight guys,” “Bareback” and “Big Dick” videos. Southern states do it better!

In the mood for some exciting entertainment? We are full of surprises here!

Check out more about Pornhub’s gay porn stats here: https://www.thegailygrind.com/2016/05/20/the-u-s-bible-belt-loves-to-watch-black-gay-porn-says-pornhub-insights/

Meet the Fetishists Who Like to Dress Up as Puppies (and Bone)

There’s a new documentary called “The Secret Lives Of The Human Pups” that explores the unusual world of “puppy players,” a subset of the BDSM community that finds pleasure in dressing up and pretending to be dogs. “Puppy play” attracts a wide variety of people, but most are gay men with a interest in leather and crawling around on the floor like a dog. According to the Guardian, the kinksters get a sexual thrill out of behaving like puppies, including playing with chew toys, eating out of bowls, and wearing dog-masks.

While the fetish play probably often leads to boning, one human-puppy named “Kaz” explains that his interests are more innocent. “People automatically jump to the conclusion that this is gear we wear to have sex. I used to get asked awful questions like, if I liked having sex with dogs,” he said. “But it’s certainly not that, and it’s not always sexual. Members of my pack, we spend a lot of time together at home just being dogs.” Another man who’s spent almost $6,000 on transforming himself into a dalmatian named Spot likes the way the ear scratches, belly rubs, ball chasing and treats allow him to “disappear.” We say, run, Spot, run—toward your kinky puppy play!

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Check out more about the fetishists who like to dress up as puppies here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/documentary-secret-lives-of-human-pets-puppy-play_us_5745da94e4b055bb1170e4b6

5 Fancy Establishments That Used To Be Raunchy Sex Clubs

15929936930_14a78eca47_mIn many of New York City’s most upscale spots, the expression “If these walls could talk” is definitely applicable. That’s because the sites of several chi-chi establishments have a way wilder, raunchier past. Here are some fancy places that used to cater to a much seedier, much sexier clientele.

  1. DOS CAMINOS (675 Hudson Street)
    At this Meatpacking joint that now sells swank Mexican food, “meat used to be seriously packed,” as Papermag puts it. “The place used to be the Vault—the hardcore S&M club where CEOs got whipped and waxed until 1997.” Escandaloso!
  2. SUGAR FACTORY (835 Washington St)
    This trendy spot used to be the Mineshaft from 1977 to 1985, aka the most notoriously raunchy gay sex hangout of all, “where studs congregated around the communal bathtub to relieve themselves on a willing slave.” It’s like the song says, “Pour some sugar on [slave]!”
  3. LEFT BANK NYC (117 Perry Street)
    This fancy spot catering in pork chops and pickles used to have a very different type of sausage in its kitchen in the 1970s. It was the International Stud, where a legendary side room catered to horny gays yanking out their sausages!
  4. SHAKE SHACK (691 8th Avenue)
    This touristy Times Square destination was once the all-male porn theater the Adonis. Until finally closing in 1994, it hosted “dirty movies and raunchy real-life blow jobs among the customers, all creating a multimedia skankfest of delight.”
  5. JUE LAN CLUB AT LIMELIGHT SHOPS (47 W. 20th Street)
    This swanky Chinese spot was the nightclub the Limelight back in the ’80s and ’90s, “a mecca for raucous clubbies on drugs and occasionally on their knees. The stuff you saw in the stairway alone!”

Want to take a (raunchy) trip back in time? You don’t need a flux capacitor and a DeLorean to be brought to your knees—come get wild with us right here!

Check out more swank establishments that used to be raunchy sex clubs: https://www.papermag.com/five-fancy-restaurants-that-used-to-be-raunchy-sex-clubs-1820166323.html

A Polyamorist View of Monogamy

Have you ever considered what’s more difficult, monogamy or polyamory? Many people assume that because monogamy is the more socially acceptable form of romantic partnership, it must be easy, and more natural. But a polyamorist in Together magazine examines the many challenging and unnatural ways monogamy manifests itself in our society. Here are some of the highlights (read the entire piece below).

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“Arguably, polyamory requires a lot more ‘work’ than monogamy. It’s logistically more challenging managing multiple relationships—there are only so many hours in a week,” says polyamorist Michael McDonald. “But if monogamy is so much simpler than polyamory, why does it feel like so much work?” McDonald argues that monogamy is not natural—as in, it’s not in a human’s nature to couple with just one person—so if a person chooses to be monogamous, then they are participating in “an advanced form of relating that requires us to transcend what comes naturally to us in relationship.”

McDonald goes on to describe how monogamous couples can be separated into two different camps: conscious monogamy and unconscious monogamy. Conscious monogamy is when a couple transcends their very nature to choose a long-term, co-created partnership. Unconscious monogamy is rooted in fear, relating to societal expectations and to anxieties about security, which he says is the more common, more insidious form of monogamy we often see today. McDonald believes, therefore, that we should “be encouraging polyamory as the norm, and monogamy as the advanced, only meant for the most experienced.”

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Check out more about a polyamorist’s view of monogamy here: https://together.guide/a-polyamorist-view-of-monogamy/