Whipped and Bound For a Living: Life as a Professional Submissive

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Subby Katie recently sat down with Vice to discuss what her day to day life is like getting tied up and flogged by strangers for a living as a professional submissive. Interestingly, even though more than three quarters of women who are into BDSM enjoy submission, there aren’t nearly as many professional submissives as there are dominatrixes. She says the key to success as a pro sub is to love what you’re doing.

Her sessions usually entail caning, bare-handed spanking, role-play (the classic secretary or school girl scenario), controlled orgasms (not allowing the sub to cum without the dom’s permission), and forced orgasms (she says this involves making her cum over and over, which becomes very intense—it was the only time she ever used her safe word!). Her clients are usually CEO types, but she’s encountered all types of kinksters, including one dude who wanted to put clothespins on her body and count the number of pins he could clamp on her skin! As a pro sub, she wants people to understand that women who are into submission are not weak or victims: they simply enjoy the submission side of BDSM, which in no way promotes violence against women.

Want to have a little BDSM fun with us? We also love what we do!

Check out more about Subby Katie on Vice.

5 Titillating Exhibits at the Museum of Sex

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The Museum of Sex, or MoSex, in NYC has been exciting patrons for 13 years with its fun, sex-positive, and titillating exhibits. MoSex’s explicit exhibits show many different sides to sexuality; they can be educational, erotic, and definitely playful. From the huge Linda Lovelace video loop showing the famous porn star giving mind-blowing blowjobs over and over again to the G-Spot Tunnel of Love, here are 5 of MoSex’s most pleasurable exhibits (check out the pictures below):

  1. Boob Bounce Castle Yes, at MoSex you can actually jump in a bounce house made entirely of big, bouncy tits! It’s like a surrealist dream come true!
  2. Erotic Rock Wall Climb, grope, and feel your way to ecstasy on the erotic rock wall. Need a lift? Grab a dick! Or even a tit or an ass.
  3. Victorian Era Anti-Masturbation Device This 100 year old device is just as scary looking as it sounds. It resembles a bronze strap-on—except dudes would actually stick their dicks in it to prevent them from jerking off!
  4. An Erotic Disney Print Ever fantasized about what Tinker Bell looks like naked? How about a Snow White and the Seven Dwarves orgy? You can see all your favorite Disney characters in ways you’ve definitely never seen them before at MoSex.
  5. Dress Made of Condoms This is just as cool as it sounds: a stylish, high fashion garment made entirely out of condoms! This dress could definitely come in handy on a night on the town…

MoSex’s explicit exhibits are seriously amazing. Want to have some playful, sexy experiences yourself? You don’t need to take a trip to NYC for that; we’re right here and always ready for something titillating!

Check out Huffington Post’s article on MoSex to see pictures and learn more about their exhibits.

Whiplr is the New App for Kinksters

Are you into apps like Tinder that help you get laid with no strings attached, but have been longing for something, well, a little more kink friendly? If so, we have good news for you. Whiplr is a new app that is specially for those who want to have kinky sex. “The idea came from within the kink community. There simply wasn’t a mobile app for people to find and connect with other people into fetish and kink,” said Whiplr’s Chief Communications Officer, Daniel Sevitt.

Whiplr came on the scene just this year and right in time for Valentine’s Day. And since it’s so new, it’s still gaining users (time to sign up, kinky horny people!). It’s also location based, like Grindr, which means that you can find potential play partners close to you or farther away if you’re looking for more discretion. But most importantly, you can define your kinks according to various categories (objects, shopping, odors), but you are also free to discuss any aspects of your fetishes in private. Sevitt explains, “Kink is a journey and everyone should be free to be who they want to be and like what they want without someone else defining it for them.” Right on, Whiplr!

Want to get kinky with us? We are always down for some fetish fun with no strings attached!

Check out more about Whiplr on Vice.

6 Terrifying Sex Toys

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_zombieBuzzFeed recently went to the trouble of listing out some of the weirdest, freakiest, and most downright terrifying sex toys out there. They range from the adventurous to the extreme with everything in between. Here are some of the most disturbing sex toys on the market that really are the stuff of nightmares (check out the pictures).

  1. King Dong Just as the name implies, this “Super-sized novelty dildo” is 15 inches long and over 2 inches wide! Just wow.
  2. Baby Jesus Butt Plug For when you want to merge the spiritual with the carnal.
  3. The Cannon This you really need to see to believe. It looks like a literal cannon. That you insert inside you. Dangerous!
  4. Death by Orgasm 10 Speed Scorpion Bullet Vibrator This hard-core vibrator is not for beginners. If the black scorpion exterior wasn’t enough to scare you off, it comes in a friggin’ coffin for Christ’s sake!
  5. Area 51 Love Doll Remember the hoax with the woman with three boobs? This sex doll looks like her. It also comes with “3 out of this world love holes” or the “free alien lube.” Sold!
  6. The Nut Crusher This is an advanced toy, even for a BDSM enthusiast. Enter at your own risk?

Well, there you have it. 6 terrifying sex toys that will either give you “death by orgasm” or, at the very least, give you some crazy-ass nightmares.

Want to have some freaky fun with us? Let’s get adventurous and weird!

Prancing for the right to be who you are!

All of us at NiteFlirt  are really big fans of people who fight for the right to be themselves. And we couldn’t be more impressed with the Prancing Elites.

Our friends over at Gawker shared a clip from Oxygen’s new reality show The Prancing Elites Project where  the dance team performs at a local parade despite the slew of hateful comments being yelled at them as they make their way down the route.

The clip didn’t leave a dry eye in the office.

At the end of the clip, a young girl is very upset at how people treated the Elites.  Kentrell, the team’s captain, comforted her by summing up why they danced after being told they couldn’t, “We’re not trying to change people, we’re just letting people know that we’re different, and it’s OK to be who we are.”

Amen, Kentrell. AMEN!

Grab some Kleenex and check out the clip over at Gawker.

All Aboard the Historic Orgy Train

North Weald railway station MMB 05 4141 205205 Some locals in a London town were shocked to find out that their beloved historic train was used recently as the set of a hardcore film. The train orgy film was made by the adult entertainment company, Brazzers, and stars sexy adult film actress Amirah Adara. She plays an 18 year old who has a passion for using her ride to school to have hot sex with strangers!

Amirah Adara is outfitted in a school girl uniform, and in one sex scene she fucks a passenger (porn star Danny D.) in one of the vintage train’s wood panelled carriages. The 28 minute porn is similar to a scene in Lars Von Trier’s film, Nymphomaniac, in which two naughty girls compete to seduce as many passengers on a train as they can. In fact, “Nympho” is the name of the station! The porn has already been viewed 235,000 times, but not everyone is excited about its popularity. One local quipped, “One minute it’s Peppa Pig and Father Christmas, the next it’s an orgy train.”

An orgy aboard a historic train sounds pretty amazing to us! Who wants to ride NiteFlirt’s train? All aboard for a mind-blowing good time!

Check out more about the train orgy here.

5 Rules For Mistresses

If you enter into a hot affair, it’s important to have some ground rules in place before deciding to become a mistress. And if you do decide to become “the other woman,” i.e., a sidepiece or mistress, it’s vital that you understand the terms of the deal. So here are the 5 rules you have to know before getting down to business as a mistress:
  1. If you’re the mistress, you may not be the only mistress
    Obviously, becoming the other woman doesn’t mean that you will be the only woman.
  2. Enjoy the stolen moments
    When engaging in a steamy affair as a mistress, it’s not necessary to focus on anything else other than having a sexy good time in the moment. Savor it, and don’t worry about what happens when you’re not together.
  3. Be comfortable with your role as the mistress—the main woman is not relevant
    There’s no reason to compare yourself to the wife or the main woman: if you’re the mistress, focus on enjoying yourself and having fun.
  4. Keep it positive
    When engaging in a “situationship,” keeping things positive, fun, and light is the only way to go. Remember that an affair is not a serious relationship—this is the joy of being the mistress, not the wife.
  5. Don’t get emotionally attached
    Being a mistress means being a sidepiece, and there’s no guarantee that will change. If you’re looking for something serious, steer clear of an affair.

Erotic Hypnosis and Mind Control

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You may already call Niteflirt for Femdom Erotic Hypnosis and Mind Control. Or you may be curious about hypnosis and mind control, but you haven’t pursued calling an Erotic Hypnotist or Mind Control Domme. Let me tell you what you will enjoy about hypnosis and mind control when you call me.

With hypnosis, it is not an impediment to feel that you are not hypno suggestible as far as your capability of going into a trance state. Even if you are absolutely 100% not hypno suggestible, you can still enjoy erotic hypnosis for relaxation and take pleasure in your fetish or fantasy at a level you may not have experienced before. Some men carry around the notion that they can’t be hypnotized because they feel like they have too much control over their mind or are too rational or analytical. This notion is a fallacy, because a mind that is overly in control, rational, and analytical needs an escape from the stress of these mental attributes. Erotic hypnosis is the perfect escape or mental vacation for individuals who are always in control, Alpha males, analytical thinkers, etc.

Mind Control is a bit more subversive. You may not even realize what is happening to you during a Mind Control phone sex call with me, but you will feel the reverberations within your mind. Mind control is also known as brainwashing. You may think you can resist an elite Femdom like me taking control of our mind, but you are already influenced by mind control techniques every day and you can, therefore, be influenced by more direct mind control. Your mind is bombarded daily by brainwashing messages and propaganda in advertising, the media, political speeches, sports, tv shows and movies. When you call me for a Brainwashing session, the focus of my mind control methods are more concentrated and coercive, and also seductive.

Hypnosis can include mind control elements, but the inverse is not necessarily true. Mind control does not depend on hypnosis. Hypnosis must include an induction of some type, even conversational, however, mind control does not require an induction to impact the flow and process of how it works. I have quite a few Niteflirt callers who enjoy mind control to effectively deepen the intensity of their fetish. Other callers seek to explore an alternate persona or more true self, such as having the psyche of a sissy instead of the mind of a man.

In addition to live Femdom Hypnosis and Mind Control sessions, I have also produced many hypnosis and mind control mp3 recordings. These are available for purchase via Niteflirt. Visit the mp3 feature display on my Niteflirt listing and read a description of each recording to see what might appeal to you. Just click to purchase and download — it’s that easy. I also produce custom Erotic Hypnosis and Mind Control files. If you have something specific in mind, call me to discuss your needs or send me a message here on Niteflirt.

Camgirl Who Just Stares at the Camera Gains Legions of Fans

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_magi_japanese_camgirlIn the olden days of the inter-webs, a camgirl had to actually do things to attract loyal followers. Camgirls might even need to turn on a 24-hour webcam to get attention and cash-money. But apparently these days, all a camgirl has to do to get hundreds of thousands of followers is to stare silently into a camera.

An adorable Japanese camgirl who goes by the name Magi earns her living by making one-minute videos of her literally staring into the camera. This camgirl’s appeal must have something to do with a kinky anime fetish, because her loyal fans all discuss how they want to fuck her in the comment threads while eagerly clicking on video after video of her just staring in silence and making cute expressions. She got 615,000 views on Youtube for one of these videos (watch below), which is enough viewers for her to make a living on YouTube as history’s first PG-13 camgirl.

Want to have some fun with one of our camgirls? We promise we’ll do more than just stare!

 

 

Chiropractor Losses License For Offering Sex and Exorcisms to Patients

www.niteflirt.com_hornydevils.jpgAn Iowa chiropractor, Charles Manuel, lost his license last month when the Iowa Board of Chiropractic found out that he was trading sex with his clients in exchange for services. Not only that, but allegedly he also performed exorcisms on them! Because, you know, getting your back re-aligned is just like exorcizing demons.

According to the settlement, he had sex with several of his patients, and even performed exorcisms on a few of them (is that a weird sex thing?). Thankfully, Manuel surrendered his license when the allegations surfaced, shocking Iowans with the scandalous news. Or maybe they were just flustered at having to find a new chiropractor/exorcist in town? You know what they say: a good exorcist is hard to find.

Looking to relieve some tension yourself? We’re no chiropractor/exorcist, but we can certainly help you to feel good all over!